"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The color scheme of the page

Ricardo

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I can't really suggest exactly what to change it to, but I've always thought the color scheme looked a bit childish. Maybe sharper colors like black or blue for the background would look better.

Not sure, has anyone else mentioned this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paradox

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The site admin is going to redesign the site soon....

Did I say soon?



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Raoul

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Personally I like it the way it is. It's not wannabe-in-your-face and it's also not trying to look sharp or hip. The focus is on what is posted here anyway, not what it is posted on.

Just a thought.

- Raoul
 

Donjuanpablo

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Its also quite conspicuous which is good because girlfriends / family members aren't tempted to see what you've been looking at.
 

future marine

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I agree. I like the way its looks low
profile because not all of us have our own computers and the site also pops up faster

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pain is weakness leaving the body

a good offensie is better than than the best defensive
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CyranoDeBergerac

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Speaking form a purely fashion/style oriented perspective, I really like the light blue/white/Khaki setup. It's unassuming enough not to try to steal the spotlight from the contents on the page. After all, when you go out, do you bathe in your cologne, so everyone knows you wear it? No. Cologne, like background colors are to accentuate what's already there.

Furthermore, men from around the world come to this page seeking sollace from the harsh realities of every day life. The gentle earth tones provide a soothing, masculine backdrop which soothes the eye rather than grabs its attention here and there.

In summary, let's not put the cart before the horse here... My 2c.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

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I like it the way it is.

having ablack background is getting tiresome.. it's been done to death. I like it when a website actually uses some colours besides black, like with the tan, blue, and white colour schemes on the forums.
 

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I'm guessing that everyone is talking about the forum. I don't really have any plans to change the color of the forum (as most seem to like the colors), but I am redesigning the site to make it look a little more professional and make things easier to read.
 

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hey allen, while you'r redisigning the site anyway do you consider updating these forums soon to a better message board program? like www.ikonboard.com or a newer vbulliten..its not that important i know, but this one has some bugs like sometimes its not updating to show the new posts even with hitting refresh, and not storing the info and some other annoying things..

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"The Future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."

[This message has been edited by BallZ of SteeL (edited 10-29-2002).]
 

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Originally posted by BallZ of SteeL:
hey allen, while you'r redisigning the site anyway do you consider updating these forums soon to a better message board program? like www.ikonboard.com or a newer vbulliten..its not that important i know, but this one has some bugs like sometimes its not updating to show the new posts even with hitting refresh, and not storing the info and some other annoying things..

Before too long.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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