The Cold Approach...

[Agent Zero]

Great post, re-reading this was very helpful. I'm just starting to do cold approaches regularly now and a lot of what you say rings so true and makes even more sense now. I've only done 3 direct approaches in the past few weeks, but I'm already feeling a lot more confident having gotten 1 # close. Now when I see a girl I want to approach, instead of thinking about it and hoping we cross paths, I find myself instinctively walking in her direction if I have time.

Did you use any direct openers? For instance I am approaching college girls on campus on walk-bys so I have been using the "are you single" approach. I'd love to use situational approaches, but I don't know how I can work them into this situation since we are just crossing paths. Do you have any advice on this? Thanks for the great post.

 

[Mr. Mystery]

Its been awhile since I wrote this and in retrospect I still stand by everything I wrote. But if there is one thing I would like to add, it would be to relax. This is something that will just happen if your out in the "field" and talking to people all the time. But really once you learn to just relax when talking to women, you are gonna have no troubles.

Take it easy.

Mr. Mystery