"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Cold Approach...

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Great post, re-reading this was very helpful. I'm just starting to do cold approaches regularly now and a lot of what you say rings so true and makes even more sense now. I've only done 3 direct approaches in the past few weeks, but I'm already feeling a lot more confident having gotten 1 # close. Now when I see a girl I want to approach, instead of thinking about it and hoping we cross paths, I find myself instinctively walking in her direction if I have time.

Did you use any direct openers? For instance I am approaching college girls on campus on walk-bys so I have been using the "are you single" approach. I'd love to use situational approaches, but I don't know how I can work them into this situation since we are just crossing paths. Do you have any advice on this? Thanks for the great post.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its been awhile since I wrote this and in retrospect I still stand by everything I wrote. But if there is one thing I would like to add, it would be to relax. This is something that will just happen if your out in the "field" and talking to people all the time. But really once you learn to just relax when talking to women, you are gonna have no troubles.

Take it easy.

Mr. Mystery
 
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