The classic woman with "pure" guy friends

[derby1]

i knew one like this, she had lost a lot of weight and literally had created an eco system of men, it didn't matter if the guy was an OAP, if she knew hed die for her vagina

i went for a casual drink with her and others the once, she contacted about 20 of her orbiters baiting them , plotting her weekend so she could rinse men of "non sexual attention" ...

her behaviour when she lost one of her orbiters was crazy as **** , she would stalk him and badger him......yet all he was was an orbiter
what an existence

 

[EyeBRollin]

Dude, no. Former c.ock carousel-chicks are often interested in gay friends for low-heat side FWB (some gays are in fact somewhat bisexual out of bad luck with other guys) OR as a emergency-well husbands ("Someone need to takie care of you my dear gay friend!") and some of them actually form couples knowing well that it suits both parties at some stage of life (she has status boost of serious woman with a decent husband, he gets status-boost from being a trustworthy husband, obviously responsible pillar od society) while both parties can look for release undercover and elsewhere (it can promote her late c.ock-carouselling/monkey branching manouvers).

All chicks with gay friends try to hit on them if they are perceived as high value - remember she can still use his resources for her own purpose.

So better watch out for gay friends. No male friends - period.

Thanks for the astute observation. I definitely will implement this in the future!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

i knew one like this, she had lost a lot of weight and literally had created an eco system of men, it didn't matter if the guy was an OAP, if she knew hed die for her vagina

i went for a casual drink with her and others the once, she contacted about 20 of her orbiters baiting them , plotting her weekend so she could rinse men of "non sexual attention" ...

her behaviour when she lost one of her orbiters was crazy as **** , she would stalk him and badger him......yet all he was was an orbiter
what an existence

So shed wring those sponges out before starting her weekend? Wtf

 

[samspade]

They are not my cup of tea and I don't find them attractive. Simple as that.

 

[Georgepithyou]

It's the female ideal of a harem

I like to refer to it as the "Thirst Sphere"

 

[SoSuave666]

If you could choose between associating with a group of people who were constantly praising you, doing chores for you, and giving you free stuff, and another that never cut you any slack, and always wanted you to listen to their problems, which would YOU choose?

Men and women are not the same. Obviously a rational person can make that choice. But Women who only hang out with other men have been ostracized by their own. Women are inherently socialist. Not like politically, and maybe there’s a better word. But they need their tribe of women to gossip and have drama. It’s a craving. It’s how they have been brought up since day 1. It’s how they communicate.

if they are not part of that construct there is something wrong.

 

[Blacksheep]

And I mean lots of guy friends...often drinking "buddies."

We all know them have all dated them and or pumped and dumped them.

What are your thoughts as far as if you see this?

Instant red flag that demotes them strictly to pump n dump?

Regardless of how attractive or otherwise desirable she is?

I feel like it's an instant red flag signal to demote to pump n dump instantly but have failed a few times with women like these from trying to take them serious instead of sticking to the code/game.

Like the old saying goes....the hottest women are usually also the most bat**** crazy and self contradicting.

Just one thing: Run away from those kind of girls. Or... just bang them and leave.

It's similar of a narcissist trait, where she want to be admired by a lot of people (this case men)... Then the guy she will date or have a LTR become like a scapegoat where she will drain his vitality to satisfy her craziness.

Had tons os dates like this when I was 18 yrs old and was a immature guy. I was treat like trash by girls like that... It's like they used me as a showcase for family, or to obtain some kind of resource or make me feel inferior. Feeding something like a narcissist does. Like Emotional Vampires.

I don't even spend my time talking with girls like that. There were one I've met, she always told about a male friend. I just told her: "You want something serious with me, but how do you expect that I would want a relationship with you, if there is a lot of vultures flying around you. Don't expect nothing than just sex and casual moments with us. I respect your lifestyle, but I also respect my own values."

After the emotional attack, I fcked her more 2 times and leave. She got really mad at me, only because I don't fall on her cuckold strategy.

"RUN, RUN AND RUN FROM THOSE KIND OF WOMEN"

 

[Blacksheep]

Glad to help. I dated one chick with close gay friend (he phucked her at least once for sure) and I heard a lot about it from girl at work that tried to seduce her gay-friend so its all verified. Keeping close single gay friends is red flag for sure.

I've heard some similar situations too!

Man this is like a perversion... I would like to hear Freud saying something about this! Cause there is some kind of fantasy on her mind to create this kind of desire.

BTW, when I was a nice guy... girls used to do all kind of trash.

Now, when I stopped with this sh1t... it's like heaven... they chase you like little puppies.

 

[zinc4]

Seriously...these kind of women are corrupt and evil imo....

The girl that inspired this OP I write would even say **** like I would like to just go around collecting men as my slaves.

It's like they have a vacuum of emptiness inside them that gnaws at them they they have to extract random people's energy......only if you play their game and fall in to their frame that is.....the correct answer is hit quit and run far away

 

[Blacksheep]

Seriously...these kind of women are corrupt and evil imo....

The girl that inspired this OP I write would even say **** like I would like to just go around collecting men as my slaves.

It's like they have a vacuum of emptiness inside them that gnaws at them they they have to extract random people's energy......only if you play their game and fall in to their frame that is.....the correct answer is hit quit and run far away

One time I was dating a girl (I was 18yrs)... that day was her birthday. I bought a $80 (I made only $300/month that time) gift for her and wrote a romantic letter. She said just "Thank you".

Then, we go out... she invited her sister and 3 male guys. I remember she turn back to me on her chair and keep all night talking with those guys. Then out of nowhere, she goes hand in hand with one of them, to go and pay the bar bil, without telling me.

I went after her, and I stupidly paid the bill for her.

Then she said that I could call a taxi that we would go to her house (I've imagined: finally I can try to have some sex! hahaha). When the taxi arrives, she said: "You can go to your house, I'll go with my friends to another bar now. See ya."

Men, I hate myself for this... cause I went home and drink a lot crying for her!! Nowadays I wouldn't put myself in that position... Gratefully I learned from this!

 

[zinc4]

Yep

One time I was dating a girl (I was 18yrs)... that day was her birthday. I bought a $80 (I made only $300/month that time) gift for her and wrote a romantic letter. She said just "Thank you".

Then, we go out... she invited her sister and 3 male guys. I remember she turn back to me on her chair and keep all night talking with those guys. Then out of nowhere, she goes hand in hand with one of them, to go and pay the bar bil, without telling me.

I went after her, and I stupidly paid the bill for her.

Then she said that I could call a taxi that we would go to her house (I've imagined: finally I can try to have some sex! hahaha). When the taxi arrives, she said: "You can go to your house, I'll go with my friends to another bar now. See ya."

Men, I hate myself for this... cause I went home and drink a lot crying for her!! Nowadays I wouldn't put myself in that position... Gratefully I learned from this!

Yep....these type of women are vicious by nature....the more viscous they are, the more power surge or energy they get from it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Just one thing: Run away from those kind of girls. Or... just bang them and leave.

It's similar of a narcissist trait, where she want to be admired by a lot of people (this case men)... Then the guy she will date or have a LTR become like a scapegoat where she will drain his vitality to satisfy her craziness.

Had tons os dates like this when I was 18 yrs old and was a immature guy. I was treat like trash by girls like that... It's like they used me as a showcase for family, or to obtain some kind of resource or make me feel inferior. Feeding something like a narcissist does. Like Emotional Vampires.

I don't even spend my time talking with girls like that. There were one I've met, she always told about a male friend. I just told her: "You want something serious with me, but how do you expect that I would want a relationship with you, if there is a lot of vultures flying around you. Don't expect nothing than just sex and casual moments with us. I respect your lifestyle, but I also respect my own values."

After the emotional attack, I fcked her more 2 times and leave. She got really mad at me, only because I don't fall on her cuckold strategy.

"RUN, RUN AND RUN FROM THOSE KIND OF WOMEN"

You NAILED it!

I call the type the "BLACK WIDOW".

These women main drug is popularity. The husband or boyfriend is used for "maintenance tasks" and she drains his vitality to use in her exploits.

He is in essence simply a "host". The People she's trying to gain the admiration of get more of her. In the end the husband or boyfriend becomes a cuck. Shes "killed" his image. Hes no challenge or threat. Lifeless. There are millions of these roaming the planet.

 

[Blacksheep]

You NAILED it!

I call the type the "BLACK WIDOW".

These women main drug is popularity. The husband or boyfriend is used for "maintenance tasks" and she drains his vitality to use in her exploits.

He is in essence simply a "host". The People she's trying to gain the admiration of get more of her. In the end the husband or boyfriend becomes a cuck. Shes "killed" his image. Hes no challenge or threat. Lifeless. There are millions of these roaming the planet.

This is kind of scaring.

As there are some Covert Narcissists, may be the case that there exists some "COVERT BLACK WIDOW" right? They don't do those kind of things publicly, maybe don't have any "exposed male friends" that you know, but in some ways do that secretly. Slowly and indirectly draining your vitality.

As living is a risk, the same goes for relationships... It's up to us to learn where we should step.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is kind of scaring.

As there are some Covert Narcissists, may be the case that there exists some "COVERT BLACK WIDOW" right? They don't do those kind of things publicly, maybe don't have any "exposed male friends" that you know, but in some ways do that secretly. Slowly and indirectly draining your vitality.

As living is a risk, the same goes for relationships... It's up to us to learn where we should step.

In the BLACK WIDOW game her group is either brainwashed or dont care a out the shyt she does to her man. She will do it right in front of them. They dont care or are oblivious or they join in on the tear downs.

If a woman is the BLACK WIDOW the best place to be is one of the "side dudes" she cheats with.

The type of relationship that ends up a "BLACK WIDOW" format is with a gold digger and a much more financially well off man.... She came for her meal ticket. She dont give a eff a out him.

I know many here hate "player supreme". But he describes the chess board in great detail. And he is extremely down to earth

 

[bcude]

These women are typically addicted to male attention so they keep an orbit of as many men as they can get. They love stringing a lot of these men along like a dog chasing a steak on a fishing line. It is a crack to them.

Very accurate.

But Women who only hang out with other men have been ostracized by their own.

Also this. When a woman only has male friends she's been excluded from the club. Mostly because she's been going against the female imperative with, for example, giving away the gift of sex for free aka being a total sl-t. Then she will be called numerous things by her female kin and thrown out from the herd since she's lowering the high value of being a female, which is not acceptable. She's not trustable by other females.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

And I mean lots of guy friends...often drinking "buddies."

We all know them have all dated them and or pumped and dumped them.

What are your thoughts as far as if you see this?

Instant red flag that demotes them strictly to pump n dump?

Regardless of how attractive or otherwise desirable she is?

I feel like it's an instant red flag signal to demote to pump n dump instantly but have failed a few times with women like these from trying to take them serious instead of sticking to the code/game.

Like the old saying goes....the hottest women are usually also the most bat**** crazy and self contradicting.

Red flag

Netflix and chill material

 

[BadBoy89]

And I mean lots of guy friends...often drinking "buddies."

Instant red flag that demotes them strictly to pump n dump?

Yep. Sex toy.