Pair A Dice
Don Juan
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When she texts, you're way too available. Don't fall into the trap of being her girlfriend.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Trust me, I notice. I just don't know if I'm playing this correctly.Pair A Dice said:When she texts, you're way too available. Don't fall into the trap of being her girlfriend.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok.BPH said:Well Marisabel was annoying as all hell. She wasn't bratty or anything but she was constantly in me and my brother's business. It really got to me after a while, especially if I wanted privacy while I read online.
Speaking of read, I finished all of Finger's posts as well as Gunwitch method and this other essay that I stopped reading halfway through. It was 11 years old by David D, and didn't really seem to be something that would work for me, as my desires are much more intimate than his seemed to be at the time.
Since I can't think of anything else, here's the workout:
3x8x30 Dumbbell Fly
3x8x55 Dumbbell Press
3x8x45 Incline Dumbbell Press (this one hurt, my left forearm got tight)
2x7 1x6x25 Incline Dumbbell Fly (improved my form, might have to lower the weight though)
2x8 1x7x150 Bench Press
That's about all I can think of today. See ya tomorrow sosuave, when I update the text convo. Basically, it's a lot shorter but I don't know about this girl. Anyway see ya.
The only reason I was annoyed rather than interested in Marisabel was because she's an 8th grader that I don't find attractive at all. Therefore her interest annoyed me.Jack Wealthy said:Ok.
First off, do you mean Dynamic Sex Life? That is far better than the other stuff, its a free download. Everything except Foundations is marketing **** because people said his method was too simple to work, he plumped it out with crap fluff. Like EVERYTHING by David D.
Nextly WHAT THE **** you hung out with the girl and complain she was annoying getting all up in ya business? Yea, you know what, you ****ed up. YOU FVCKED VP. She was getting annoying because her constant attention was her trying to hint to you SHE WANTED IT.
Dude, get out of your head. 99.99999999999999% of your problems, yes including this text thing your obsessing over, are over thinking. I'm no hero of action without thought, but I still do it anyway.
That's it. Stop trying to guess girls motives, actually APPLY Gunwitch Method and assume whatever they do is wanting you, until they **** off or tell you to.
Yeah, that triggered me. I know that type of girl and don't get how you could **** up (I didn't for about ten minutes) until I re-read your last few posts and realised how much you have been analysing lately. The problem is you are too in your head waiting for signs, so much so yu miss them. If she's getting annoying slap her ass and shout "MAN TALK." Or pin her down. Then play with her boobs. Or pull out your ****. Or go for the kiss, then pull back. WHATEVER YOU WANT BECAUSE YOU ARE IN CONTROL.
Nyah Nyah Nyah.
This girl is down to do dirty things. I liked how you were plowing towards the hangout because once you get your opportunity its game over.BPH said:Alright so here's the convo, shortest so far but not by too much. I had to clear texts to make room for others so here's the conversation starting from this point. All that really doesn't show is the standard good morning and some small talk:
Me: Yeah...was a good game
Her: Lol. Hah. World of war craft. was ok. Back than to! H. Omg i feel like a nerd
CUT
That's all folks.
We'll find out on Thursday.eastcoast15 said:This girl is down to do dirty things. I liked how you were plowing towards the hangout because once you get your opportunity its game over.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Making it happen like a boss.BPH said:Basically what is supposed to happen is on Thursday we would both go somewhere and wrestle, which I could easily use to escalate. However, right now neither of us really know a private place for us to do that. If push comes to shove I'll just ask if I can go to her house, she doesn't like that idea because her parents are strict. But I'm sure I can push past that if I need to.
Thanks for the clarification.amohield said:According to Facebook, Norway's out manning up in the wilderness somewhere for a couple of weeks.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't necessarily approve of the mb before a date, but you know yourself.BPH said:I had enough time to make dinner, mb, and feed my dogs.
Did I react immaturely? Probably. I was annoyed that I spent so much time cleaning up my house and convincing my family to leave me alone with her for a few hours, and having her reschedule from Thursday.
I understand that she can't help it, but I'm not waiting for another weekend to hang out with this chick. Mall tomorrow.
I mbed because the girl was taking too long and I wanted to bust a nut to relieve some of the stress that was building up. Not a regular thing.LearningSlowly said:I don't necessarily approve of the mb before a date, but you know yourself.
You acted correctly. And great attitude on getting back to the mall.
I'm too bored right now. Waiting for a chance to present itself, wishing i could make it happen.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.