Pair A Dice
Don Juan
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When she texts, you're way too available. Don't fall into the trap of being her girlfriend.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Trust me, I notice. I just don't know if I'm playing this correctly.Pair A Dice said:When she texts, you're way too available. Don't fall into the trap of being her girlfriend.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ok.BPH said:Well Marisabel was annoying as all hell. She wasn't bratty or anything but she was constantly in me and my brother's business. It really got to me after a while, especially if I wanted privacy while I read online.
Speaking of read, I finished all of Finger's posts as well as Gunwitch method and this other essay that I stopped reading halfway through. It was 11 years old by David D, and didn't really seem to be something that would work for me, as my desires are much more intimate than his seemed to be at the time.
Since I can't think of anything else, here's the workout:
3x8x30 Dumbbell Fly
3x8x55 Dumbbell Press
3x8x45 Incline Dumbbell Press (this one hurt, my left forearm got tight)
2x7 1x6x25 Incline Dumbbell Fly (improved my form, might have to lower the weight though)
2x8 1x7x150 Bench Press
That's about all I can think of today. See ya tomorrow sosuave, when I update the text convo. Basically, it's a lot shorter but I don't know about this girl. Anyway see ya.
The only reason I was annoyed rather than interested in Marisabel was because she's an 8th grader that I don't find attractive at all. Therefore her interest annoyed me.Jack Wealthy said:Ok.
First off, do you mean Dynamic Sex Life? That is far better than the other stuff, its a free download. Everything except Foundations is marketing **** because people said his method was too simple to work, he plumped it out with crap fluff. Like EVERYTHING by David D.
Nextly WHAT THE **** you hung out with the girl and complain she was annoying getting all up in ya business? Yea, you know what, you ****ed up. YOU FVCKED VP. She was getting annoying because her constant attention was her trying to hint to you SHE WANTED IT.
Dude, get out of your head. 99.99999999999999% of your problems, yes including this text thing your obsessing over, are over thinking. I'm no hero of action without thought, but I still do it anyway.
That's it. Stop trying to guess girls motives, actually APPLY Gunwitch Method and assume whatever they do is wanting you, until they **** off or tell you to.
Yeah, that triggered me. I know that type of girl and don't get how you could **** up (I didn't for about ten minutes) until I re-read your last few posts and realised how much you have been analysing lately. The problem is you are too in your head waiting for signs, so much so yu miss them. If she's getting annoying slap her ass and shout "MAN TALK." Or pin her down. Then play with her boobs. Or pull out your ****. Or go for the kiss, then pull back. WHATEVER YOU WANT BECAUSE YOU ARE IN CONTROL.
Nyah Nyah Nyah.
This girl is down to do dirty things. I liked how you were plowing towards the hangout because once you get your opportunity its game over.BPH said:Alright so here's the convo, shortest so far but not by too much. I had to clear texts to make room for others so here's the conversation starting from this point. All that really doesn't show is the standard good morning and some small talk:
Me: Yeah...was a good game
Her: Lol. Hah. World of war craft. was ok. Back than to! H. Omg i feel like a nerd
CUT
That's all folks.
We'll find out on Thursday.eastcoast15 said:This girl is down to do dirty things. I liked how you were plowing towards the hangout because once you get your opportunity its game over.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Making it happen like a boss.BPH said:Basically what is supposed to happen is on Thursday we would both go somewhere and wrestle, which I could easily use to escalate. However, right now neither of us really know a private place for us to do that. If push comes to shove I'll just ask if I can go to her house, she doesn't like that idea because her parents are strict. But I'm sure I can push past that if I need to.
Thanks for the clarification.amohield said:According to Facebook, Norway's out manning up in the wilderness somewhere for a couple of weeks.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't necessarily approve of the mb before a date, but you know yourself.BPH said:I had enough time to make dinner, mb, and feed my dogs.
Did I react immaturely? Probably. I was annoyed that I spent so much time cleaning up my house and convincing my family to leave me alone with her for a few hours, and having her reschedule from Thursday.
I understand that she can't help it, but I'm not waiting for another weekend to hang out with this chick. Mall tomorrow.
I mbed because the girl was taking too long and I wanted to bust a nut to relieve some of the stress that was building up. Not a regular thing.LearningSlowly said:I don't necessarily approve of the mb before a date, but you know yourself.
You acted correctly. And great attitude on getting back to the mall.
I'm too bored right now. Waiting for a chance to present itself, wishing i could make it happen.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.