"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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//The Chronicles of BPH\\

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BPH said:
A lot of people omit the deadlift because of the long-term damage it does to spines. If anyone knows a good substitute I'd love to hear it.
This is only for people with scoilis?
If not, then link me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First off, wow, didn't know this site only had a 10 post limit per day.

The football game ended up being a flop, 3 people showed up total, 2 of them were an hour after the first bailed so I didn't see much of a point. Didn't even go.

Signed up for a stock market game using play money. Looks pretty good and functional, absolutely no idea what I'm doing so I'd like people to advise me otherwise I'll just make mistakes with the play money while I figure it out.

Still working on dealing with the breakout, got a SS day today, taking a passport picture because my mom wants to take us all to Amsterdam...

I for one, hate flying, especially since 9/11 and hearing about all these plane crashes, so I don't really want to go to Amsterdam. But I think traveling around the world would be a good experience for me nonetheless.

Leave your opinions on this.

Going to chill with my friend on Main St. later today. Hopefully I can do some approaches down there. Still got my stuffy nose so that might suck a bit. Might see a movie down there with him since I wanna see SuckerPunch.

Talk to you dudes later
 

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I just started that stock market thing in business last week. Im probably gonna use the same website as you are using this week. Just play and learn. Do some research.

Your belief about flying has no grounding really, flying is as dangerous as taking the car to school, or less.

And this is for you. (I know you have some spinal injury, so I dont know about the deadlift. Do some research and see if your injury is permanent, etc. I think that deadlifting untill it starts hurting will only help, as you create a stronger support for it by strengthening your lower back.
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-deadlift-with-proper-technique/
http://stronglifts.com/how-to-squat-with-proper-technique-fix-common-problems/
 

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I just started that stock market thing in business last week. Im probably gonna use the same website as you are using this week. Just play and learn. Do some research.
What gets me about the stock market thing is the fact that I have no idea where to start or what to look for. All I know are a few companies that do well (Google, Apple)

EID: Also I read the deadlift page. Useful information, but I would learn best from pictures or videos of the correct form. I watched a few on YouTube and I emulated the first result if you search "deadlift proper form"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BPH said:
A lot of people omit the deadlift because of the long-term damage it does to spines. If anyone knows a good substitute I'd love to hear it.


Why don't you consult a physician, physical trainer, or a doctor. These are questions that you need to ask them.

We're just newbies and kids.


There might be conditions that you are unaware of that might need medical attention in regards to deadlifts and scoliosis.

We don't know all the details, and this is your health and future that your "gambling" by asking online. IMO, your best bet would be to go to a health professional and seek advice from them.

I'd speak to someone who has specialized in weight training or scoliosis rather than a general physician.
 

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Somebody tell me about the Don Juan Boot Camp? It seems like something I should do.

My friend didn't hit me back up in time and I didn't end up going because my parents were my rides and they were both out.

Next weekend, no matter who comes or doesn't come with me, I will go on Main St. and have f***ing fun. Hopefully I can make a few friends while I'm at it, considering how boring my current ones are becoming.

Starting Strength:
3x5x150 Bench
3x5x175 Squat
1x5x150 Deadlift

Not much else going on I suppose. Get back to me on the DJ Boot Camp thing, I have it downloaded already. Expanding social circle is up next.
 

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Got my passport today, I'l probably be going to Amsterdam this summer or something, I don't know. I recently just s*** a f***in brick...I wrote a 6 page research paper and it only saved the first 2 pages. Thankfully my brother found a way to recover it, I was so sweaty and upset after I thought it got deleted (LOL).

Since not much else happened today, let's look at goals:

Getting Laid

Workin on it. Not too many other girls I'd be willing to bone in my school right now. If possible I'd like to get laid before my birthday on the 27th of this month. I prefer losing it at 16 instead of 17.

Learning Stock Market

Ok so in that play money stock market game I bought 100 shares of a stock with the symbol GOLD, some kinda resource company. Went down 2% and I have no idea what else or how much I should buy from anything. Might as well make my mistakes with fake money...

Boxing

Gonna request gloves, a mouthpiece, and hand wraps for my birthday. Seems like something I would really enjoy or be good at, having been a sparring champion in my karate school and enjoying contact sports. Got real bored yesterday and shadowboxed a tree with the sparring gloves.

Expanding Social Circle

Here's my issue...I'm not afraid of approaching these guys and making friends with them...but I try to befriend people I want to emulate, people that have a quality that I desire, somebody that will help develop my character. And I don't really know anybody fun or cool like that in my school with the exception of a few people who are either already my friends or stoners. Tell me how to approach that anybody.

Aside from that, somebody tell me if the Don Juan Boot Camp from the DJ Bible is worth my time. I don't want to become dependent on material but this looks like it may help since it requires my own action.

Review and tell me your thoughts guys.

@Norwegian: I read about you having a workout playlist, did you buy all those songs? If not, where did you get them onto your iPod or whatever?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You didnt click my link or answer my question.
Do MOTUs bootcamp, download the link, answer my question, and be fullfilled.
 

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Nothing really went on today...

My stock is up, I'd be making a 491$ profit if I sell now :D

Anyway SS:

3x5x155 Bench (struggling a bit on the last few reps of this weight)
3x5x180 Squat
3x5x110 Power Clean

I found this thing called the 300 Workout after a teacher saw me weightlifting today. Anybody heard of it? It's a pretty inhuman routine developed by Mark Twight and is NOT a sanctionted fitness routine. Nevertheless it looks like something I'd be stupid enough to try unless I was disuaded.

Tell me about the DJ Boot Camp Norwegian, there's the one you sent me and the one I found in the Bible? What are the differences and are either of them worth doing?
 

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MOTUs bootcamp is the same one as the one you're talking about. He created it.
The link is not to the bootcamp, it's to an youtube to mp3 converter.
Check out AAAgent or Credos log in the health forum, one of them is doing the 300 workout at times.

Also you shouldn't power clean as much as you do. You're most likely lifting too much on it and not using proper form.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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