"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The chick is feeling me , but wants me to admit how much I love her! wat to do?

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Well here's the my situation thus far. I've known this chick for years, but we've only been talking on an off and on basis for a couple months now. Recently we've been going out. On our last date we spent the entire time making out and feeling each other up. Things are moving towards having sex now. On the phone she's asking me why don't I admit to her how much I like her, perhaps even love her. I try to avoid the question and flip it around trying to make her confess to ME. I'm so close to fvcking her, now she's putting me in a tough position that could mess up my chance with her. Should I just tell her how much I like her? I'm thinking if she knows that she has my full interest she might leave because that might fvck up the sense of challenge. She's an absolutely great girl that I could see myself in a longterm relationship with, but we've only gone out on 2 dates and she's already steering us in that direction. She says she knows I like her but she wants to hear me confess it. So far its a yes, but I'm not sure if I should tell her just yet. She's been telling me she wants me to be open and honest with my feelings. So far I've only been keeping things sexual and flirtatious with her, but I'm having the urge to make us exclusive. But hey, if she leaves me after I tell her I like her alot I want to be able to fvck her before we go to the "just friends" zone. How do you all suggest I deal this?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's a secret.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
It's a secret.
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I don't know if LikRetsam was being sarcastic or not :) but use this to your advantage. When she asks you to confess tell her it's a secret. This way you'll keep her interested and, once you let her know how you feel she's won the game, and you don't want that. Get her interest level high enough with you and she'll confess to you first.
 
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Well your in good shape now.

If you feel like you have to say something, say something ****y and funny.

Some things that come to mind:

"Depends"
-her "on?"
"how much money you gonna give me?" then laugh

"I actually hate you, i'm just messing with your mind" with a smile then laugh

A chick doesn't need an answer to know your level of attraction. They know.
 
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Don't tell her anything. These guys have a good idea with the "It's a secret" line. If you want to make it exclusive with her, then next time she asks you how you feel about her, tell her that "Actually, it's a secret.. maybe I'll fill you in later (or saturday, whenever, next time you are kicking it with her)." Then when you get together with her on saturday, don't respond to any of her questions if she asks you about it.. keep saying it's a secret. You could even throw something back at her, like "What, are you feeling insecure? <smile>" You get the idea. Then, when you feel the time is the right, all you do is lean in.. dramatic pause.. "I want you to be my girl." The point is that you do it on your terms, and not as a response to her question. Always do it on your terms.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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agreed ^^ , and never talk about your feelings on demand, that is never parrot back "I love you" when it gets to that point and don't give in when she nags about you not talking about your feelings. Do it on your terms, and always less than she does to you.
 
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