"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The cheerleader.....and the dunsky [me]

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I am in High School and I am not very popular. I guess I have ok looks but I need a tan. There is this girl in one of my classes, I don't think her friends like me but hell what do I know. I want a date with her but need to talk for a few weeks to start a friendship. She is in one of my classes but I don't know the way to approach her. I can't just go up and say HI like a moron. I am pretty sure she knows I like her as It was floated around school already. What should I do?

PS: She is probably a little out of my league. And I think she has a boyfriend but I am not sure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I did. I dunno it just seems like I can't act like this out of the blue with my rep already partially burned. Ugh I hate my life. lol
 
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Don't just read the parts that center around getting laid, those are the least important of all. Read posts like Pook's "Be a man", etc and absorb the messages. Acting out of the blue will get you nowhere...move your goal from "get that chick" to "be a better man"...it will lead to happiness and probably eventually some wild monkey sex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn't. I'm almost done with Freshman year. I don't give half a **** about getting laid.
 
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She is out of your league. You're an ugly, pale, nerd piece of ****.

Why do you even bother?

If she can get passed your looks, I'm sure she'll be disugsted by your **** personality anyway.

Don't even bother man.

What a waste of time.

Stick to writing thesis papers and drooling over cheerleaders. Or maybe just the latter. You seem to be good at it.
 
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I don't know how bad off you are, but I once had a really bad reputation in my opinion but now I am way better off and alls it took was being more open, spontanious, loud, and not anylizing everything you just gotta get out there and do it. Just talk to her or find some way to run into her but dont be a stalker.....
 
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Why the **** has it been floated that yuo like her, dont do it again. Speak to her, you are not going to lose anythign.

As i always say jsut go for it
 
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