"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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as I have become more experienced in the game,I have actually come to value those girls who make it difficult (not impossible) for me to get inside them

ive dated a couple of girls in the last year who have just been WAY to submissive

it sounds great at first "wow a chick that will do or say anything just to please you"

but I assure you the novelty soon wears off and the relationship becomes stale and boring

always remember needy women just like men are extremely unattractive
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The rule of "value" goes both ways.

Humans are wired not to appreciate or see value in anything that is too accessible or easy to get.

A lock that can be opened by any key is a useless lock. If a woman is too easy for us to seduce then we assume she is easy for any man to seduce and we don't see her value. Likewise, if a beta is too anxious to give his time, money and attention to a woman before she demonstrates any worth or IOI.. it is assumed he is thirsty and willing to give it to any woman who will take it. So women don't see his value.

A man that spines plates is the equivalent to a key that can open many locks. A key that can open many locks is a valuable key.
 

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needy women just like men are extremely unattractive
Not wrong.

Humans are wired not to appreciate or see value in anything that is too accessible or easy to get.
Agreed. But actually, when you have quality that is easily accessible, and you can recognise it, and you know how to handle it, I think that's when you're winning.

Women are for relaxing.
This is a man's perspective. Many women are born and raised to expect hyper-stimulation from men nowadays. That's exactly why fora like this exist.
 

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Too much resistance gets exausting! Feels like having to repeat myself more than once. I hate that!! I'm busy and don't have time. Turns me off!

I think girls need to balance it. There's nothing wrong with submission as long as they don't lose themselves or their identity.

They should be checking our interest levels, and adjust accordingly.
 

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I've said this in the past and received criticism for it, but I whole-heartily agree.

Some men feel getting laid is the be all and end all, where the possibility of walking away from a woman who is giving you easy access to her pvssy is a crime.

I can ASSURE you women find men who practice sexual self-control very attractive.

I guess when you move further along the path what stimulates you changes...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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@wifehunter - yes agreed too much resistance is a no no , but then its our job to detect the time wasters at an early stage I can sniff one out a mile away now

theres a big difference between a woman who has no intention of ever giving you any \I/

and a woman who just wants you to work for it

just like anything else in life there is a huge self satisfaction when you receive something you have worked hard for

@3agle 3yes - yes same here my friends look at me stupid when I tell them I actually get rid of chicks because they are boring me

@deesade - I will agree im not a big fan on chilling with women unless we share the same passion / interest in something

I don't like people faking an interest in something just to try and get in my good books makes me feel on edge
 

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as I have become more experienced in the game,I have actually come to value those girls who make it difficult (not impossible) for me to get inside them

ive dated a couple of girls in the last year who have just been WAY to submissive

it sounds great at first "wow a chick that will do or say anything just to please you"

but I assure you the novelty soon wears off and the relationship becomes stale and boring

always remember needy women just like men are extremely unattractive
True. But it also depends how good looking the girl is and how much time and resources you want to put in. If the girl is good looking or has any type of value, you want her to be as submissive as quick as possible. If the girl is average looking or has little value, then she can take her time. How much money and time you want to put into that girl is another question. o_O
 
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