"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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as I have become more experienced in the game,I have actually come to value those girls who make it difficult (not impossible) for me to get inside them

ive dated a couple of girls in the last year who have just been WAY to submissive

it sounds great at first "wow a chick that will do or say anything just to please you"

but I assure you the novelty soon wears off and the relationship becomes stale and boring

always remember needy women just like men are extremely unattractive
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The rule of "value" goes both ways.

Humans are wired not to appreciate or see value in anything that is too accessible or easy to get.

A lock that can be opened by any key is a useless lock. If a woman is too easy for us to seduce then we assume she is easy for any man to seduce and we don't see her value. Likewise, if a beta is too anxious to give his time, money and attention to a woman before she demonstrates any worth or IOI.. it is assumed he is thirsty and willing to give it to any woman who will take it. So women don't see his value.

A man that spines plates is the equivalent to a key that can open many locks. A key that can open many locks is a valuable key.
 

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needy women just like men are extremely unattractive
Not wrong.

Humans are wired not to appreciate or see value in anything that is too accessible or easy to get.
Agreed. But actually, when you have quality that is easily accessible, and you can recognise it, and you know how to handle it, I think that's when you're winning.

Women are for relaxing.
This is a man's perspective. Many women are born and raised to expect hyper-stimulation from men nowadays. That's exactly why fora like this exist.
 

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Too much resistance gets exausting! Feels like having to repeat myself more than once. I hate that!! I'm busy and don't have time. Turns me off!

I think girls need to balance it. There's nothing wrong with submission as long as they don't lose themselves or their identity.

They should be checking our interest levels, and adjust accordingly.
 

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I've said this in the past and received criticism for it, but I whole-heartily agree.

Some men feel getting laid is the be all and end all, where the possibility of walking away from a woman who is giving you easy access to her pvssy is a crime.

I can ASSURE you women find men who practice sexual self-control very attractive.

I guess when you move further along the path what stimulates you changes...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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@wifehunter - yes agreed too much resistance is a no no , but then its our job to detect the time wasters at an early stage I can sniff one out a mile away now

theres a big difference between a woman who has no intention of ever giving you any \I/

and a woman who just wants you to work for it

just like anything else in life there is a huge self satisfaction when you receive something you have worked hard for

@3agle 3yes - yes same here my friends look at me stupid when I tell them I actually get rid of chicks because they are boring me

@deesade - I will agree im not a big fan on chilling with women unless we share the same passion / interest in something

I don't like people faking an interest in something just to try and get in my good books makes me feel on edge
 

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as I have become more experienced in the game,I have actually come to value those girls who make it difficult (not impossible) for me to get inside them

ive dated a couple of girls in the last year who have just been WAY to submissive

it sounds great at first "wow a chick that will do or say anything just to please you"

but I assure you the novelty soon wears off and the relationship becomes stale and boring

always remember needy women just like men are extremely unattractive
True. But it also depends how good looking the girl is and how much time and resources you want to put in. If the girl is good looking or has any type of value, you want her to be as submissive as quick as possible. If the girl is average looking or has little value, then she can take her time. How much money and time you want to put into that girl is another question. o_O
 
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