"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The censored DJs and the outspoken AFC

ethnomethodologist

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What is up with popular culture today jamming our brainwaves with beliefs from thousands of years ago?

I know to this day that there are hidden subcultures that cross the globe. You can't learn about them because nobody teaches it, they are too afraid of the controversy and crass judgements that are to ensue...

Of course being outspoken is a way of life for anybody who cares about their own life. Than there are the people who must remain queit as to conceal their own...

Gangs, thieves, bumpers, cons... etc.

These people live their lives in general solitude, they live life as though nobody knows they exist.The structures of life are concealed from the general media due to scrutiny and laws that are in place to protect the remainder of cultures sense of pride. There are laws against every news syndicate in the world against spreading false information as being true. The problem is, unless it is proven beyond a doubt, or is popularly accepted, than it is labelled as wrong...

Just as in our criminal court systems, people fight to prove innocence, the media fights to prove reality. Many people in the world argue with the methods of the media, others widely accept it and blindly follow. Than there are the inbetweens, the people who take everything at face value, and compare it to their own lives and realities... the dangerous people.. the DJ's.

What is up with censorship?
Why are our lives controlled by protection?

Why is it that society would 'crumble' without a policing force we call the government?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wow, bump

theSpeculator sure censored me with that:(
I can't believe I didn't argue my point afterwards... I feel like such a wussy now
 

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ethnomethodologist said:
I know to this day that there are hidden subcultures that cross the globe. You can't learn about them because nobody teaches it, they are too afraid of the controversy and crass judgements that are to ensue...
You can't learn about hidden subcultures cuz they're hidden :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i don't think i've ever seen the "ethnometologist" post a single field report. Yat he makes 14 posts a day. Now i don't mind that at all (i haven't done too many FR eather), i just have yat to see something usefull come out of all those posts...
 

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I only post mini reports. The only field reports I post are the ones that I can't understand... I have other reasons to pursue the DJ way. Yesterday, I got hit with an epiphany, but if I say anything about it, I will only be faced with criticism and brash judgement that doesn't apply to my situation.

edit: Oh yeah, and if I had a negative reputation, a post count of zero I would be content. I am not being an attention wh0re;) If I could do this from behind the lines, in a discrete fashion where people stopped pointing out my indescrepancies in the amount of time I spend online, I would be happier.

You can't learn about hidden subcultures cuz they're hidden
The only way I have ever been inducted into a secret culture is through subtle hinting. I have never been able to DJ my way into a new group, I have to display integrity, and knowledge before the possibility of my actions making the group sour arise.

I am not passionate about any of the groups though. This is the only private community, I am privy to.
 
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