"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Case For Failure.

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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very good post. I enjoyed watching that.

failure sucks, no way around it, but it's a necessary evil in life, it's nature's way of making lesson's stick.


I no longer look at failing as a bad thing. It's only bad when you chose not to learn from it. There is usually a lesson to be learned in all failures.

Once you understand the significance of failure, you understand that to succeed on a great level, you have ot be willing to fail on a great level. Fail as hard and fast as possible. The best lessons come from the biggest failures. Failure is something to be embraced, not to run from.
 
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