Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Case For Failure.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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very good post. I enjoyed watching that.

failure sucks, no way around it, but it's a necessary evil in life, it's nature's way of making lesson's stick.


I no longer look at failing as a bad thing. It's only bad when you chose not to learn from it. There is usually a lesson to be learned in all failures.

Once you understand the significance of failure, you understand that to succeed on a great level, you have ot be willing to fail on a great level. Fail as hard and fast as possible. The best lessons come from the biggest failures. Failure is something to be embraced, not to run from.
 
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