The Capt. Save-a-ho Inclination

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Is this inclination natural or learned?

Natural
Votes: 11 37.9%
Learned
Votes: 12 41.4%
Unsure
Votes: 6 20.7%

Total voters

29

Bonhomme

Master Don Juan

Mar 5, 2007

its both nature and nurture.

most serial killers had VERY cold, distant and abusive mothers. its one of the major traits of serial killers. they have NO desire to save a ho, instead they want to kill a ho.

That's the nurture part... or non-nurture, as the case may be. The nature part is that extremely violent people have been show to have brain-wave abnormalities that are more-or-less consistent in that a certain portion of the brain is severely understimulated. Perhaps it takes something as extreme as murder to sufficiently stimulate that portion of the brain. Interesting thing is that it has also been shown that such people can be completely rehabilitated by playing a sort of video game that develops that portion of the brain.

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.