"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Capt. Save-a-ho Inclination

Is this inclination natural or learned?

  • Natural

    Votes: 11 37.9%
  • Learned

    Votes: 12 41.4%
  • Unsure

    Votes: 6 20.7%

  • Total voters
    29

Bonhomme

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its both nature and nurture.

most serial killers had VERY cold, distant and abusive mothers. its one of the major traits of serial killers. they have NO desire to save a ho, instead they want to kill a ho.
That's the nurture part... or non-nurture, as the case may be. The nature part is that extremely violent people have been show to have brain-wave abnormalities that are more-or-less consistent in that a certain portion of the brain is severely understimulated. Perhaps it takes something as extreme as murder to sufficiently stimulate that portion of the brain. Interesting thing is that it has also been shown that such people can be completely rehabilitated by playing a sort of video game that develops that portion of the brain.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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