"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The "can you read this for me?" note

Kourt

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Today at the club some guy showed me an awsome little ice breaker. He had this note, and he'd go up to a girl and be like "hey, can you read this for me?" the note said:

Smile if you'll sleep with me

Of course any girl who isnt a beyotch is going to smile and probably laugh, once she does this, you're in. Everything from there is up to you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lloyd_bank$

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I'm not so sure. While on holiday this year, I saw a badge with something very similar on it, so bought it. One night out I wore it. A few girls asked me wot my badge said, then looked closer and read it. A few laughed, but still most girls thought it was stupid. I got zero success that night. And this is on holiday where people are usually more up for meeting new people, and sleeping with strangers!!

Unless this is just girls in the UK, who are no fun. But I would be wary of using this technique.
 

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I dunno man, I think it would only work with a select few and your ass will probably get slapped in the process : )
 

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Thats genius, or you could adapt that to say something and then tease her about it.

Like "Smile if you think im hot"
"Smile if you'll kiss me" (you might even get a kiss out of this)
Smile if you think im "dead sexy"

just examples but if we could think up some more this would be awesome, i love the idea. It's just that Im a Christian and not getting laid till it's with my wife....though maybe I could still use this to break the ice just not follow thru with it, or not direct the relationship down that avenue. thru the conversations we have, but also not down the LJBF ave either.
 

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I like this. I wouldn't ever use one of those notes as an opener, but it could be useful to use if you're going for a kiss close. "smile if you'll kiss me" or whatever.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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