"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Còckblock

SmooveMooves

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Anyone ever had a beautiful opportunity completely destroyed by a buddy/bro/family/AFC.

Why do people do it?

Have you ever ****blocked somone? Consciously or unconciously? Outta of jealousy or to get someone back.

One time I was macking this dime. (Granted she was a *****) but I was gaming heavy trying to score. Then, my buddy comes over, changes the conversation, and asks her to come upstairs with him to find something she put somewhere. I was heated, all I could think of is what a dìck move that was.

Just curious of you guys' experience.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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foreverAFC

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one time back when i was younger and way more out of control, i was at my friends house one night and his sister who was only a year or two younger had her friends over as well. two of the sisters friends, a guy and a girl were sitting alone in the living room making out with the lights turned off. i walked right in, turned the lights on, and turned the TV on and sat there right next to them until they got up and left. i wasnt jelous or bitter back then, i was just a **** and we didnt like the sisters group of friends.
 

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I was 34 and out on a first date with a 24 yo chick one night.

This older lady (maybe 50ish) comes into the bar with her bf. She ignores her bf and starts chatting up my date. At first, I let it go. An older lady being friendly is no threat, right? (Wrong! See below.)

This lady completely takes over the conversation, and talks to my date for like an hour and ignores me. I try to get into the conversation so as not to be totally left out.

The older lady then looks at me closely and says, "YOU'RE OLDER THAN HER!"

At this point, it's game/date over. Of course my date knows I'm older than her. But this older bytch was on a mission to stop this "evil OLDER creep" from having a date with her "adopted daughter."

After she left, even the bartender guy said to me, "What was up with that bytch?"

Worst than that, her bf was younger than her, maybe 40 ish. I actually felt bad for him. He seemed like a decent quiet guy with some controlling hypocritical white knightess bytch that was ignoring him.
 

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Clearly you should've told her to go away or left to some place else with your date.
 

Mike32ct

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Comatozed said:
Clearly you should've told her to go away or left to some place else with your date.
Absolutely. I F-ed up big time. Lesson learned.

The reason I shared this story is so that guys can also learn from this. Cawk blocks come in all kinds. It's not always some douchbag AMOG that can F up your date. Even someone that initially appears harmless can cawk block you. So always keep an eye out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bingo-Player

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people are weird

men c0ck blocking i can understand , its a competion at the end of the day i would never ruin a lay for people i didn't know , but if i had an interest in that chick id do just about anything in my power to block

but women doing it completely bewilders me , they literally stand nothing to gain from it apart from denying they're friend an orgasm and opening themselves up for a torrent of abuse from the guy

just don't get it
 
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