"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Còckblock

SmooveMooves

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Anyone ever had a beautiful opportunity completely destroyed by a buddy/bro/family/AFC.

Why do people do it?

Have you ever ****blocked somone? Consciously or unconciously? Outta of jealousy or to get someone back.

One time I was macking this dime. (Granted she was a *****) but I was gaming heavy trying to score. Then, my buddy comes over, changes the conversation, and asks her to come upstairs with him to find something she put somewhere. I was heated, all I could think of is what a dìck move that was.

Just curious of you guys' experience.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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one time back when i was younger and way more out of control, i was at my friends house one night and his sister who was only a year or two younger had her friends over as well. two of the sisters friends, a guy and a girl were sitting alone in the living room making out with the lights turned off. i walked right in, turned the lights on, and turned the TV on and sat there right next to them until they got up and left. i wasnt jelous or bitter back then, i was just a **** and we didnt like the sisters group of friends.
 

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I was 34 and out on a first date with a 24 yo chick one night.

This older lady (maybe 50ish) comes into the bar with her bf. She ignores her bf and starts chatting up my date. At first, I let it go. An older lady being friendly is no threat, right? (Wrong! See below.)

This lady completely takes over the conversation, and talks to my date for like an hour and ignores me. I try to get into the conversation so as not to be totally left out.

The older lady then looks at me closely and says, "YOU'RE OLDER THAN HER!"

At this point, it's game/date over. Of course my date knows I'm older than her. But this older bytch was on a mission to stop this "evil OLDER creep" from having a date with her "adopted daughter."

After she left, even the bartender guy said to me, "What was up with that bytch?"

Worst than that, her bf was younger than her, maybe 40 ish. I actually felt bad for him. He seemed like a decent quiet guy with some controlling hypocritical white knightess bytch that was ignoring him.
 

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Clearly you should've told her to go away or left to some place else with your date.
 

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Comatozed said:
Clearly you should've told her to go away or left to some place else with your date.
Absolutely. I F-ed up big time. Lesson learned.

The reason I shared this story is so that guys can also learn from this. Cawk blocks come in all kinds. It's not always some douchbag AMOG that can F up your date. Even someone that initially appears harmless can cawk block you. So always keep an eye out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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people are weird

men c0ck blocking i can understand , its a competion at the end of the day i would never ruin a lay for people i didn't know , but if i had an interest in that chick id do just about anything in my power to block

but women doing it completely bewilders me , they literally stand nothing to gain from it apart from denying they're friend an orgasm and opening themselves up for a torrent of abuse from the guy

just don't get it
 
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