"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The bride in the nutty dancing wedding

MatureDJ

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This video seems to be making its way onto the public cultural consciousness.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-94JhLEiN0

Did you notice how the man seems like to be decently fit and good looking, but the bride is pleasingly plump? What does this say about the sexual market in the USA?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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That was another way to do it! The heavy-set guy had some moves fo sho

And I don't think the bride is plump or bad looking, would you marry a 10? If I was seriously hunting a 10 I could consider marriage material, I'd sooner find the great white buffalo!
 

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Heretolearn said:
sweet video - Looked like great fun!!!
True, but lets hope they have some new moves as they shimmy into the divorce courts in 6 months.
 

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it's no longer about the union. it's about the youtube "show" now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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