"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The bride in the nutty dancing wedding

MatureDJ

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This video seems to be making its way onto the public cultural consciousness.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-94JhLEiN0

Did you notice how the man seems like to be decently fit and good looking, but the bride is pleasingly plump? What does this say about the sexual market in the USA?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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That was another way to do it! The heavy-set guy had some moves fo sho

And I don't think the bride is plump or bad looking, would you marry a 10? If I was seriously hunting a 10 I could consider marriage material, I'd sooner find the great white buffalo!
 

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Heretolearn said:
sweet video - Looked like great fun!!!
True, but lets hope they have some new moves as they shimmy into the divorce courts in 6 months.
 

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it's no longer about the union. it's about the youtube "show" now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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