"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The bride in the nutty dancing wedding

MatureDJ

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This video seems to be making its way onto the public cultural consciousness.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-94JhLEiN0

Did you notice how the man seems like to be decently fit and good looking, but the bride is pleasingly plump? What does this say about the sexual market in the USA?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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That was another way to do it! The heavy-set guy had some moves fo sho

And I don't think the bride is plump or bad looking, would you marry a 10? If I was seriously hunting a 10 I could consider marriage material, I'd sooner find the great white buffalo!
 

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Heretolearn said:
sweet video - Looked like great fun!!!
True, but lets hope they have some new moves as they shimmy into the divorce courts in 6 months.
 

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it's no longer about the union. it's about the youtube "show" now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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