The Brad Pitt Test needs to come back

[BillyPilgrim]

Nah, I’ve been with women to where they were receptive, but I just didn’t feel like they had genuine interest in me. Your gut feeling is a superpower, so use it.

But you have an inferiority complex if you do so.

 

[Sega Genesis]

I just laugh when a woman says she has rules!

Well if you read my post again I said I have no "rules" I find them arbitrary and often contrived.

Nor do I keep score, did you even read my post? Seems like you just want to judge and criticize because you dislike me and don't want me here.

Anyway...

I also said all my boyfriends including my current feel (and have felt) like a KING perhaps you missed it?

I give a lot and also said I often give MORE but it's NOT unbalanced because at times HE gives more.

I do think a balance of "give and give" make the best relationships, if you want to fault me for that or call me derogatory names that is totally fine I'm not offended in the least.

A woman will do anything and everything for the right man.

I actually don't dispute this^^, the disconnect is what each woman considers the "right" man.

I require effort... again give and give. This is what makes me happy and feel safe.

The "right" man for me shares this view, it's a win-win!

If the woman you date don't, that's fine whatever floats your boat (and theirs).

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Well if you read my post again I said I have no "rules" I find them arbitrary and often contrived.

Nor do I keep score, did you even read my post? Seems like you just want to judge and criticize because you dislike me and don't want me here.

Anyway...

I also said all my boyfriends including my current feel (and have felt) like a KING perhaps you missed it.

I give a lot and also said I often give MORE but it's NOT unbalanced because at times HE gives more.

I do think a balance of "give and give" make the best relationships, if you want to fault me for that or call me derogatory names that is totally fine I'm not offended in the least.



I actually don't dispute this^^, the disconnect is what each woman considers the "right" man.

I require effort... again give and give. This is what makes me happy and feel safe.

The "right" man for me shares this view, it's a win-win!

If the woman you date don't, that's fine whatever floats your boat(s).

Duke, every man worth his salt reads Cats' posts multiple times with the discerning eye of a bald eagle. Do better man.

 

[MatureDJ]

A woman will do anything and everything for the right man.

It's OVER for WrongManCels.

 

[CornbreadFed]

The true red pill is experiencing what @Solomon posted because I can clearly tell the difference between guys that have and have not with women they actually find attractive.

 

[The Duke]

Duke, every man worth his salt reads Cats' posts multiple times with the discerning eye of a bald eagle. Do better man.

I can't stand her. She has nothing to offer SS.

 

[Solomon]

Well I assure you I am a woman (former catsmeow). However, I don't believe in "rules" per se, and I have and DO make tons of effort and happy to do so!

All my boyfriends including current (whom I consider a total catch), feel and have felt like a King, I believe I posted that.

However in order for me to feel happy and comfortable making all the effort I make, I do need for HIM to be making effort too.

Versus testing me, attempting to manipulate me and my feelings through gamesmanship and expecting me to be his maid (cleaning HIS house?, doing HIS laundry?), driving five hours in a snow storm to see him/have sex with him?

Thankfully none of my boyfriends have ever required these things of me. Nor did they even want me to!

In fact even IF I were inclined to want to drive five hours in a blizzard HE wouldn't have allowed it as it's much too dangerous!

However I love to cook and cook for him, for us, often even early in.

I have suggested and planned dates (tickets to a ball game for example) and offered to pay and have paid.

But no I'm not his maid, nor his mom (nor does he want me to be), nor do I have a "martyr" complex that I would risk my life in a snow storm to have sex with him. No matter how much of a catch he is.

That's just plain dumb.

We both should be making effort.

I don't believe in "rules" or keeping score (ugh) and if at times I am making more effort, that's fine. At other times HE will make more.

Its a balance. I like to call it "give and give." Versus give and take.

If you want to call me "high maintenance" or whatever for that so be, I have no issue with that.

You have the same MINDSET most women have you think it's about keeping SCORE it's not, it's about a woman making EFFORT it's that simple. The bar is so low with modern women that most men don't require much from them as long as they are getting the kitty. Even on this forum a lot of guys are just happy to get sex from women. Meanwhile real ones know when a woman truly makes EFFORT, sex is par the course and just a slice of what she can bring. If you have dealt with a woman who is attractive and makes REAL effort, it's hard to go back to dealing with chicks who are MID (not just talking about looks but also their EFFORT)and think slobbing on your knob for 5 minutes is "EFFORT"

Most men when they truly like a woman will make effort, guy sets the date and time, guy may even pick the girl up in his cleaned car that he vaccumed and took to the car wash, guy takes girl to the venue, guy asks engaging questions or conversations. Guy pays for the date. Isn't that all effort? to most women of course not because you expect this, but what do you bring to the table outside of your wet mouth and kitty to garner such? This is why so many men are opting out of dating game because intially when dating women you get more of the effort most men are lucky to get a girl to go on date since a lot of women flake eand ghost. A lot of women are already smashing other men. A lot of women have no intention of seeing a guy again after the 1st date but gladly will order the most expensive thing on the menu just to block him and never talk to him again (modern women have no shame). But before the date the man has to make effort to make sure he calls her or text her, this energy usually isn't reciprocated hence you have so many men dealing with Mid interest chicks or LOW effort chicks. Meanwhile even if a woman doesn't get a date from a guy she still getting attention, validation and EFFORT from a man. This is why men have stopped putting effort, why make effort for something that isn't going to work out? this is why so many men feel dating is a waste of time especially online dating.

I recently had a delusional woman thinking she was doing me a favor by talking to me and trying to "breadcrumb" me with the "possibility of sex". I cut her of ASAP because a woman tries to manipulate you with sex is not just a red flag but a nucelar bomb. If i was back in my 20s or even 30s that may have worked but sex isn't something I struggle to get, yes like any man I have had dry periods etc. However the older I get the more I'm interested in companionship and stimulating conversations but even at these things, a lot of women suck at cause yall to damn addicted to your iPhones and Tik Tok that even grown women can't sit still for 2 hours and just watch a movie. I"m talking grown as women in their 30s and even 40s I expect this dating a 25 year old but not a older lady. Most women care about the same topics they did in High school thats' why to me there is no difference dating a 21 year old or a 41 year old but at least with the 21 year old she is hot, no wrinkles and we can watch anime togther. With a 41 year old she is jaded bitter and wants to trauma dump about her ex boyfriend or husband (thanks but no thanks). This is also another reason I prefer younger women, less trauma but I digress...

Talking to most women the only interest a lot of them have (especially the prettier they are) is gossip, gossip and more gossip. I remember some years ago I went on a date with a STEM major one of the best dates ever because she was actually legit smart and not talking about seeing the latest epsiode of "White Lotus" nothing wrong with White Lotus Season 1 had Sydney Sweeney god bless her, we need more women build like this instead of water buffalos.

 

[Sega Genesis]

You have the same MINDSET most women have you think it's about keeping SCORE.

Huh?

Well if you read my post again I said I have no "rules" I find them arbitrary and often contrived.

Nor do I keep score..

Apologies didn't read the rest of your post, it's obvious some of y'all are not reading mine and as such misquoting, misjudging nor even trying to understand my perspective.

If you had, you'd see very clearly I make tons of effort and happy to do so! I also said (once again) I often give MORE with no resentment as I know HE will "give back" in his own way, again NO "keeping score" I don't believe in that.

Oh and I also enjoy ANAL and bf has said I give him the best BJ's he's ever had in his life! I swallow too and enjoy having him c*m on my face and any other raunchy, kinky, erotica we can think of. Including watching porn together from time to time and acting out.

But I guess since I won't risk my life by driving 5 hours in a blizzard to suck Your Highness's d*ck, I'm unworthy and a lousy girlfriend. Lol.

So be!

Anyway, the Duke IS right about one thing.

I cannot relate to your experiences nor can you relate to mine which is fine, this is a seduction forum dedicated to red pill mentality which is not my scene. Nor is it my boyfriend's.

As such there is nothing I can offer here so I will bid you all adieu and wish you well.

Thanks Duke for guiding me towards the "light."

Ciao.

 

[typical]

I wouldn't call this "The Brad Pitt" test or any other current or has been High Value celeb test. Because many of these men have been made a complete fool by their woman and played like a fiddle.

I'd just call it a "High Interest" test and leave it at that. We don't need the semantics of which Alpha Chad does this relate to. All we need to know is how would the woman we are interacting with deal with a man that she's super interested in.

We live in a very fast paced modern world and life throws a lot at us so expect the odd flake once in a while. But an interested woman will go to great lengths to explain why she's flaking out and most likely will plan to make amends later. This is all we need to know. No game theory, No if she said this does it mean that over thinking.

If you're a busy man with a clear goal in your life or passion for doing something in your life and you've spoken about this goal or passion. This simple act elevates her curiosity in you and she will want to come along for the ride. Thus she will make time for you one way or another. Likewise you will too if she's worthy of your time.

If it doesn't then you're dealing with a simpleton that offers nothing. (I think I rambled on there a bit, getting old me thinks)

 

[jhonny9546]

they actually find attractive.

I would say respect and admiration.