"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The BootCamp Collaberation.

CapiCrimini

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I thought it might be nice to have all the bootcamps in one thing. Just as moral support and to see how people are doing. Here's the links to the threads.

The Ultimate Bootcamp ~ Dapper Swindler
apodyopsis's bootcamp journal
Chutzpah boot camp
Seraph's Bootcamp Log
Vincent's Belated Bootcamp
Dualman7's Bootcamp Journal
The Logbook of an Aspiring Casanova ~ Krassus
MrCode's Boot Camp Journal
duke007's Boot Camp Journal

If I missed anyone just post the link below. I'm not going to keep bumping this so If you want to view it save it as a favorite or bookmark.

~Capi

oh and of course it wouldn't be complete without
BootCamp Journal ~ Walden ;)
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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would be nice to have a "bootcamp forum" to keep this one from getting cluttered
 

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Here's mine...

MrCode's Boot Camp Journal

I'm still in the boring week one, but I'm motivated so things should get interesting as the weeks progress.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Recluce
would be nice to have a "bootcamp forum" to keep this one from getting cluttered
Tossed the idea before. No go, since there is no need for it.
 
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