"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Book the secret was based on!!

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Hey u can download the book The Secret was based on just go 2 this page www.theselfimprovementsite.com this guy wrote the book years ago and the lady who did the secret turned it to a documentary.It's cool but best of all its free chech it out and then read the reviews at amazon.com the name of the book is The Science of getting rich .:rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know how this book or teh secret fit up there with my other fav buisness books like art of war and 48 laws but after seeing all the positive reviews on oprah it might be up there waht do u guys think?:wave:
 

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any of u guys want 2 comment on this?:confused:
 

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It is easy to find I downloaded it for a bud.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chevelle said:
I must be blind, as i can't seem to find the download?
You must not believe that you can find it. Imagine that you can and you will. :up:
 

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e-lie said:
Hey u can download the book The Secret was based on just go 2 this page www.theselfimprovementsite.com this guy wrote the book years ago and the lady who did the secret turned it to a documentary.It's cool but best of all its free chech it out and then read the reviews at amazon.com the name of the book is The Science of getting rich .:rockon:
You mean like Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill?

The original work, this book was based on?
 

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The science of getting rich is what the movie the secret was based on dont watch the movie if u dont have the money read the book and download it its there in the free stuff section :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The science of getting rich is what the movie the secret was based on dont watch the movie if u dont have the money read the book and download it its there in the free stuff section :)
Not only is that the msot horrible grammar and spelling I have seen this week, but its complete bull****.

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Whatever I just thought I'd post it its up there with think and grow rich in my opinion :)
 

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Someone must care it has been viewed a over a hundred times:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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