"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Book the secret was based on!!

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Hey u can download the book The Secret was based on just go 2 this page www.theselfimprovementsite.com this guy wrote the book years ago and the lady who did the secret turned it to a documentary.It's cool but best of all its free chech it out and then read the reviews at amazon.com the name of the book is The Science of getting rich .:rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know how this book or teh secret fit up there with my other fav buisness books like art of war and 48 laws but after seeing all the positive reviews on oprah it might be up there waht do u guys think?:wave:
 

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any of u guys want 2 comment on this?:confused:
 

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It is easy to find I downloaded it for a bud.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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chevelle said:
I must be blind, as i can't seem to find the download?
You must not believe that you can find it. Imagine that you can and you will. :up:
 

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e-lie said:
Hey u can download the book The Secret was based on just go 2 this page www.theselfimprovementsite.com this guy wrote the book years ago and the lady who did the secret turned it to a documentary.It's cool but best of all its free chech it out and then read the reviews at amazon.com the name of the book is The Science of getting rich .:rockon:
You mean like Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill?

The original work, this book was based on?
 

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The science of getting rich is what the movie the secret was based on dont watch the movie if u dont have the money read the book and download it its there in the free stuff section :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The science of getting rich is what the movie the secret was based on dont watch the movie if u dont have the money read the book and download it its there in the free stuff section :)
Not only is that the msot horrible grammar and spelling I have seen this week, but its complete bull****.

:trouble:
 

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Whatever I just thought I'd post it its up there with think and grow rich in my opinion :)
 

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Someone must care it has been viewed a over a hundred times:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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