"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
Alot of guys complain about their success with chicks and their human relationships but what the don't realise is that they can get a quick fix by sorting out their head issues. Hold your head up high by Dr Paul Hauck is still the number one book to help with that. But I must admit , Western women fvckin suck! I feel so damn sorry for all you guys in USA and the UK.Chosen1 said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Mad Ghost
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Chosen1
Master Don Juan
True western women do suck but I live in a western dominated world. In my world I have to be a "hustla" I.E drug dealer to have any chance of getting some of these women.I decided a month ago after trying that that that is not who I am. I've been reading more because I have nothing really to do until I go back to school, then off to the ArmyYAboi said:
P.S: Where can I download these books I'm at the local library now thanks.
"Get laid or die trying" by Jeff Allen. It's more like a (true) story than an instruction book. It's cool and often times hilarious.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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The page is full of excerpts and guidelines.
At the bottom of the book sample there's a good list of recommended books:
Ten Laws in Being a Man by Paul Dobransky
The Mack Within by Tariq Nasheed
Play or Be Played by Tariq Nasheed
The Art Of Macking by Tariq Nasheed
The Black Book by The Player
21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John C Maxwell
21 Indespensable Qualities of Leadership by John C Maxwell
Mode One by Alan Roger Currie
Without Embarrassment by Micheal Pilinski
Weapons of mass Seduction by Mr Fingers
Mastery by George Leonard
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Game by Blake Richards
50 Tips of Attraction by Scott Peterson
The Art of Approaching by Thundercat
Mystery Method by Mystery Method
Mind Access Coffee by Kevin Hogan
22 Immutable Laws of Marketing by Al ries & Jack Trout
Psychocybernetics by Maltz MaxwellAs A Man Thinketh by James Allen
48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
How to win friends and Influence people by Dale Carnegie
Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo
Pimpology: The 48 Laws of the Game by Pimping Ken
As A Man Thinketh by James Allen
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel
Negotiate Your Way to Riches by Peter Wink
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.