"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Book Recommendation thread
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
Alot of guys complain about their success with chicks and their human relationships but what the don't realise is that they can get a quick fix by sorting out their head issues. Hold your head up high by Dr Paul Hauck is still the number one book to help with that. But I must admit , Western women fvckin suck! I feel so damn sorry for all you guys in USA and the UK.Chosen1 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Mad Ghost
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Chosen1
Master Don Juan
True western women do suck but I live in a western dominated world. In my world I have to be a "hustla" I.E drug dealer to have any chance of getting some of these women.I decided a month ago after trying that that that is not who I am. I've been reading more because I have nothing really to do until I go back to school, then off to the ArmyYAboi said:
P.S: Where can I download these books I'm at the local library now thanks.
"Get laid or die trying" by Jeff Allen. It's more like a (true) story than an instruction book. It's cool and often times hilarious.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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The page is full of excerpts and guidelines.
At the bottom of the book sample there's a good list of recommended books:
Ten Laws in Being a Man by Paul Dobransky
The Mack Within by Tariq Nasheed
Play or Be Played by Tariq Nasheed
The Art Of Macking by Tariq Nasheed
The Black Book by The Player
21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John C Maxwell
21 Indespensable Qualities of Leadership by John C Maxwell
Mode One by Alan Roger Currie
Without Embarrassment by Micheal Pilinski
Weapons of mass Seduction by Mr Fingers
Mastery by George Leonard
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Game by Blake Richards
50 Tips of Attraction by Scott Peterson
The Art of Approaching by Thundercat
Mystery Method by Mystery Method
Mind Access Coffee by Kevin Hogan
22 Immutable Laws of Marketing by Al ries & Jack Trout
Psychocybernetics by Maltz MaxwellAs A Man Thinketh by James Allen
48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
How to win friends and Influence people by Dale Carnegie
Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo
Pimpology: The 48 Laws of the Game by Pimping Ken
As A Man Thinketh by James Allen
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel
Negotiate Your Way to Riches by Peter Wink
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.