"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The bonuses of lifting and eating healthy.

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So I just got back from my cruise and I'm feeling like a freakin king in a castle. I went with family members thinking that it would be laid back and relaxing,not a laugh that lasted over 2 days straight. I played it cool and let stuff go often(not pursuing) because I had my little brother to watch and I had no clue where any of my relatives were. Here is some stuff that fueled my fire for one of the best workout days I've EVER had;

-I just got out of the spa and had a robe on heading back to my room waiting for the elevator. These two chicks come up to me, 'Hey I know this will sound really random,but can I take a picture with you?'

-After missing my elevator I took the stairs and just I was about to go up a group of people walk past me. One chick yells 'Oh my gosh look at him! He's gorgeous!' I had no clue who the chick was talking to so I kept walking then she yells 'Hey I'm talking to you!'. I turned around and she says, 'I just wanted to show my friends your body,you have one hot body.'

-I'm at the pool about to get some food from the inside cafeteria and I put my wife beater on. Some chick at the slide next to where I'm sitting at yells 'Oh no Honey,you don't need that shirt,keep it off.'

-I was bored and decided to walk around(shirt on) and these older chicks walk by,I saw them checking me out at the pool earlier,one of them says 'Hey! You have a nice body!' as I walk by. I turned around and gave her a wave and kept walking.

-I was at a spa and these four chicks(20-24) come in the spa. We small talked and split after the spa was closed. I found them in the club later that evening. They buy me drinks for no reason,AWESOME! I'm not even old enough to buy it legally so that was nice of them!

-My brother and I were heading to our room from the pool and these 5 chicks(19-21) get in the escalator with us. They were all joking and loud when they got on and then they all just stopped talking and all stared at me on the elevator one-by-one. As my brother and I got off one of the chicks yelled, 'Bye! Have a nice vacation!'. My brother then says, 'Thank-you' and waves back at them. Oh man my brother kills me.

Now if that doesn't motivate some slackers to hit the gym then I don't know what will.

Get off your a55 and go lift already,NO EXCUSES!



Edit; Don't take this the wrong way but more Men(not little boys) stared at me know just thinking about how much work it took me to get a decent physique. We'll at least I hope that why they were looking at me.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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awesome bro, can't wait til i'm at your point of body, still working my way.

although, my original reason for hitting the gym was because i liked to eat and didn't want to get fat, and joggin was boring me, and the gym is so much more effective.

pretty motivational though!
 

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Great great story blink. Just imagine where you will be in a few years with consistent gym ethics and good eating. You'll be in even better shape, get even more noticed and be banging some of the finest women on this planet. Oh, your poor soul.
 

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Zerix said:
Damn, that IS pretty ****ing motivating :D
Dude tell me about it. I posted of what happened to my buddy while we were in Vegas(almost a year ago) and that's what got me eating healthy and I've never looked back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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congrats man... i've noticed men staring at me too (not in a gay way..) but sort of *******ish... but these guys seem afc and dont look they know where a gym is..don't let them get to you
 

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Well how many did you sex? Make out with?

Are you posting in the wrong section?
 

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yo im glad you now know how chicks feel, wit gettin approached and everything. Now, how bout u be a real don juan and actually try to HOOK UP with these girls who are tellin u how hot you are.

If you did not hook up with these chicks who hit on you, then you are definitely the definition of ball-less chump
 

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baller1985 said:
yo im glad you now know how chicks feel, wit gettin approached and everything. Now, how bout u be a real don juan and actually try to HOOK UP with these girls who are tellin u how hot you are.

If you did not hook up with these chicks who hit on you, then you are definitely the definition of ball-less chump
And someone who has 2 posts and thinks he's a guru is the definition of a troll. :box:
 

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He already stated that he was on a vacation with his FAMILY and taking care of his little brother. Obviously he wasn't going to ditch his family just for some tail that he could easily get any time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Charm said:
And someone who has 2 posts and thinks he's a guru is the definition of a troll. :box:

u analyzin the number of posts i got but your missing my obvious point.

How badly in balls has someone gotta be lacking that they dont hook up with girls who say **** like those girls were saying to him


He didnt say if he hooked up or not, im saying IF he didnt hook up then hes a chump, and if he DID hook up with them, then hes a good lookin playa, which is what we all need to be


and yo Charm i dunno where u spew the fact that # of posts = amount of knowledge in the game
 

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Spade_1 said:
He already stated that he was on a vacation with his FAMILY and taking care of his little brother. Obviously he wasn't going to ditch his family just for some tail that he could easily get any time.
its not ditchin if u go hook up for 20 minutes....he's not w/ his family 24/7
 

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baller1985 said:
its not ditchin if u go hook up for 20 minutes....he's not w/ his family 24/7
Some chick even offered to let me motorboat her boobs but then I looked around real quick and my brother was standing standing 20 feet checking out golf clubs for mini golf.

The only time where I actually fooled around with a chick was in the club,cooping on a feel on some boobs and a thong,not too much. I was really paranoid about not having my own room and relatives seeing me.

Oh well next time, I'll go with the homies.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Some chick even offered to let me motorboat her boobs but then I looked around real quick and my brother was standing standing 20 feet checking out golf clubs for mini golf.

The only time where I actually fooled around with a chick was in the club,cooping on a feel on some boobs and a thong,not too much. I was really paranoid about not having my own room and relatives seeing me.

Oh well next time, I'll go with the homies.

just chalkin this up to family ****block? lol

i mean dude im just lettin u know that u can be ****ing every single girl who compliments u like that
 

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baller1985 said:
just chalkin this up to family ****block? lol

i mean dude im just lettin u know that u can be ****ing every single girl who compliments u like that
Oh really? Where was he supposed to be screwing them? Did you read the part where he was rooming with his family? I guess you'd prefer living in fantasy world. Sure, maybe he could pull a few quickies in the cruiseship hot-tubs late at night or in the bathroom in the club but lets be realistic, not as simple as you say. TROLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wtf is a troll?? is that some kinda donjuan language only the cool guys with 1000 posts use? idiot
 

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baller1985 said:
just chalkin this up to family ****block? lol

i mean dude im just lettin u know that u can be ****ing every single girl who compliments u like that
Yeah I guess I could.

Dude I'm not using my family as my ****block excuse. I did what I could at the club but there is just the thought of knowing that your family could be anywhere around you that stopped me from letting loose.

Let's not let this thread get off track.
 

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no doubt, the more jacked up you are, the more girls will be all up on you for your looks - hit the gym!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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