The Birth of a Golddigger...

[sylvester the cat]

Got a text out of the blue last week from my ex fiancee asking if i could lend her some money. Out of interest I asked her how much but got no response for a week:


Her: Ignore my request for money. YOu're not a loan shark.

Me: Why r u asking 4 money anyway?

Me: Not that it matters. I'm in the process of investing all my money in a project as u know so I don't know why ur asking me. I'm not even ur bfriend anymore. Talk about liberties!

Me: Ask ur brother who has a good job and doesn't have rent to pay. Ask (her auntie or uncle who recently got a fat payout from their parent's will) who live in their nice house. Ask (her favorite restaurant) who u were so keen to spend what little money we had there. Ask anyone but me.

Her: Would you like your ring back so u can sell it?

Me: U need an income that can sustain the amount of rent u pay. It's not rocket science.

Her: I know. I'm looking.

Me: If i were u, i'd move into ur parents house, get some job with some form of security and start saving. Money gives you options. No money makes u a prisoner. No matter how nice ur postcode is (she lives in a small studio apartment in a very upmarket area). Either that or marry a rich guy.

Her: No room at parents...my dad would drive me mad anyway. I'd rather marry a rich guy! Good idea!

Her: Thanks for your advice. how do u suppose I find a husband?

Me: U'll find a hundred eager applicants online or just go out somewhere and see how many men give you the eye.

Her: Yes but will they have money?? That's the tricky part ....

Me: Find ones that do. Congratulations. U r now officially a golddigger. Lol.

 

[n52]

cool

 

[sylvester the cat]

you gave this girl a ring and she didn't even end up marrying you? no wonder she thinks you're a chump and that she can get some more $$$ out of you.

People will only use those who will allow themselves to be used.

Wow. That's some conclusion you jumped to there given the limited facts I presented.

 

[MtnMan]

get your ring back man, holy eff.

 

[JohnnyStorm]

It sounds like she is being fairly light hearted and responding to your suggestion about "marrying a rich guy".

Either way, she doesn't sound too mental, but hey, I'm reading into one text conversation here.
Did you recently split up or something? If she is willing to give you your ring back then you may as well get it back off her. As it doesn't really serve any purpose for either of you at the minute.

 

[Alvafe]

yeah when she mentioned to give the ring back I would have said hey good idea, mail it back.

but again a msg like that I would ignore, not even would care to answer.

like a ex fling I had she send me a msg asking if I could fix her wireless modem, I read that delete it and never looked back.

 

[DragonBlood]

This sounds like a reasonably good interaction on her part.

Her light hearted tone suggests she might be interested in a casual relationship and stability with you while she digs for gold. Could be a good thing or a bad thing depending on what shes like (you know best).

 

[GotED?]

It is quite astonishing how some of these HB7+ women spout off 'Gold Digging' references in their behavior as if it is some normal thing. This shows how long they have lived their lives like that, using men in the past as casual way of doing business.

I recently decided to date a Polish woman who looked almost like Cameron Diaz and HB8+ (if it wasn't for her smaller boobs, it would a very close 9). She asked me to go to her house for dinner on Christmas Day as the 3rd date - we had a lovely time as she cooked me a 4 course meal. But the SH!T she spouted off was insane, such as:

* "yeah, I had this one boyfriend who drove expensive cars and made about 2 or 3 times as much as me in salary, but he expected me to still pay for 1/2 of the cost when we go out and do things together... OMGOSH!! Why should I pay 1/2 when I don't make as much as he does? * (phucked up women's logic here)

* "Oh, I really think I am going to quit my job coming up after New Years - I don't have much savings at all, I hope I can survive after I quit my job. (then I ask her why doesn't she look for another job first if she doesn't have any savings?) Well, maybe I will just find a man who will pay the rent for this place... " (LOL!! OMG.... in mind mind I am going 'NEXT!' for her as she is really referencing ME to become her boyfriend and pay for her rent!)

It was unfortunate, because I really liked her company but I am experienced with hotties so her Cameron Diaz looks didn't make my knees weak at all and I NEXTed her and went NC.

But this shows you the level of ENTITLEMENT good looking women are now behaving as a part of their normalized behavior. She had no CONSCIENCE at all when she spoke about this stuff to me. As if there's no shame in not taking responsibility for your life and making a living!!

The more I date hottie women, the more I think they are more and more lazy than the lesser attractive looking women. They never really had to work hard in their life for survival - and I am strictly talking about NON-single mother women (single mothers are some of the hardest working folks, not all, but more likely).

So fellas - suck in the pain... a double-edged sword with hotties.... tread carefully with your heart. ALL women have motives in wanting to be with a man - find one who's motive is one of really digging you for who you are and not what you have.



Be well.

Exodus

 

[Johnny Alias]

I've heard every excuse on the book for this kind of behavior...

My favorite is that it's TRADITION for a man to pay for everything. IE They believe in old school values... whatever.

They're just looking for ANY WAY POSSIBLE NOT TO WORK. My ex was like this. I pushed her to get a real job. There was always an excuse. She had alimony money to screw around with so why bother. When I broke up with her and she ran into the arms of another guy she made the point of telling me "HES GOT MONEY!"

Lord. She bilked her ex husband out of $150k after a sham of a marriage where she cheated on him... WITH ME.

These chicks are disgusting. They're just *****s who take a different form of money. And after you're married when you refuse to pay for their every desire they call up their pimp (lawyer) and you get ***** slapped.

Amazing.

You guys who think she's being light hearted are very ignorant. Asking an ex bf for a loan so she doesn't have to get a job displays ZERO boundaries and a HUGE sense of entitlement. Trying to sell the ring? Talking about getting a sugar daddy?

SHE'S SERIOUS!!!!!!

 

[Epimanes]

Thankfully both my wife and I started with nothing and worked our way up to a pretty fat savings. Some women think their puzzy will feed them for life

 

[Johnny Alias]

Indeed. A pair of fake tits will pay for themselves many times over.

HOWEVER... it does end... they do get old... and these charms wear thin. Most of them don't save for this rainy day either thinking the money tree will keep producing fruit.

Eventually they're just too old. You can see them pursuing old fat betas at bars they are NOT attracted too at all and they're sad. But they don't have any real skills. They are used up wrinkly holes and they know it. There is always a guy, but the glory days are over.

That makes me VERY happy to see... Karma is a mudda fugga aint it!!!!?