"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The big truth novices need to know

lizardking82

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Guys, here's the most important thing you need to understand about women (this is for the young ones, the experienced members here already know most of this, but I am just sharing something I came to realise today after a situation):

They are all...and when I say all I mean all, children in grown up bodies. For that matter, a huge number of men are like that, too, but women are the worst in this aspect you gonna find. Why are they like that? Because we live in a patriarchy. Yes, you saw that right. The patriarchy is the system that says "women and children's needs come first, f0ck men". For thousands of years, they were programmed to be treated like damsels in distress and were not made responsible for most wrong things they did. That DNA carries on today, with the single and most important exception that today...they have power in their hands. Power we gave them and they are just showing how terrible a child with power is.

In any interaction with them, you should realise the only "sword" they can wield towards you is the passy. They are not better than you. Any of them rarely are. They are just a bunch of insecurities that their parents installed in them with a passy and that is why you want them. No matter how good they are, how good a family they come from and how good a father they had, there will be many instances in your communication and/or relationship with them where you will have to take the parental role in the room and will feel like the only adult in that room, too. They will resort to meaningless chants and sometimes yellings about non-sense. Maturing them is your duty, when in fact it should not be like that. No matter the amount of work you put into the relationship, you will have to deal with a lot of sh1t coming from them and as some of you will get better at handling the **** and making the sex last a while longer, in the process, you will feel tired and drained and will not even feel in the mood for sex. You will have to teach them what their fathers didn't and will have to handle all of their emotional bagagge and all of them have some of that. Of course one could argue that men have that, too, but this is directed to men who endlessly seek to self improve and become a more complete person in their life.

I think all men should realise this is the nature of women, their real nature, beyond any fairytale that we wanna believe. Even the "best" of them are just a bit better than mediocre in and out of themselves. They only respond to one thing and there is one thing that will keep them hooked to you and that is when you show them your limits and when you show them their place. Be a strong man, one leading his life and consequently the women in his life. They need to be handled and if you're not prepared for that or if you suddenly think you found one that doesn;t need handling...think again, cause you're slipping or are already in the mud and just don't realize it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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