"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Big Secret

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Confidence.

Yes, it is that simple. Confidence is your answer. Always. Want to be respected? Confidence. You want girls? Confidence.

It's always all about confidence. Confidence can get you the girl, because confidence never gave a crap whether she liked you or not in the first place.

I know you've read this before. You probably know you've read this before. But I don't care. You need to hear it again.

Confidence ≠ arrogance. If you're being arrogant, you're doing it wrong. Confidence has fear, but the difference is confidence doesn't let fear control it. Confidence knows what principle and respect mean. Confidence is not the male model jerk-off, confidence is the guy who is going after what he wants without hurting others. Confidence also understands that he cannot make everyone happy, and has no desire to make everyone happy. Confidence cares about his friends, family, and girlfriend(s).

Stop second guessing yourself all the time. Confidence does not second guess, yet they understand when they've messed up and will adjust accordingly. Confidence thinks drama is funny/retarded, and should stay on TV shows. Confidence does not allow drama to enter their lives.

Confidence doesn't understand what's so scary to some people about talking to girls/new people. In fact, as far as fears go, that's the last thing on confidence's mind.

Confidence is wondering what you're afraid of. Confidence is asking you to put away your tampon for the vagina you have, and to start grabbing life by its balls and getting what you want.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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This is a good post but by no means A big secret, it's pretty much universally known on this board now that confidence is the ultimate weapon in seduction.
 
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