"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Big Secret

Jon55

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Confidence.

Yes, it is that simple. Confidence is your answer. Always. Want to be respected? Confidence. You want girls? Confidence.

It's always all about confidence. Confidence can get you the girl, because confidence never gave a crap whether she liked you or not in the first place.

I know you've read this before. You probably know you've read this before. But I don't care. You need to hear it again.

Confidence ≠ arrogance. If you're being arrogant, you're doing it wrong. Confidence has fear, but the difference is confidence doesn't let fear control it. Confidence knows what principle and respect mean. Confidence is not the male model jerk-off, confidence is the guy who is going after what he wants without hurting others. Confidence also understands that he cannot make everyone happy, and has no desire to make everyone happy. Confidence cares about his friends, family, and girlfriend(s).

Stop second guessing yourself all the time. Confidence does not second guess, yet they understand when they've messed up and will adjust accordingly. Confidence thinks drama is funny/retarded, and should stay on TV shows. Confidence does not allow drama to enter their lives.

Confidence doesn't understand what's so scary to some people about talking to girls/new people. In fact, as far as fears go, that's the last thing on confidence's mind.

Confidence is wondering what you're afraid of. Confidence is asking you to put away your tampon for the vagina you have, and to start grabbing life by its balls and getting what you want.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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This is a good post but by no means A big secret, it's pretty much universally known on this board now that confidence is the ultimate weapon in seduction.
 
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