"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the big picture

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BeDJ

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I've been registed for over a year and it's been about a year since my last post about anything related to this site.

A year ago, I was a total loser, a wanna be, basically I failed with anyone I came in contact with. I had very little friends, and those that I have never really respected me, I was always that guy who hung out and never said anything. I was the guy where when everyone bounced and I was the only one left. Worst when it came to girls.

When I first started to get use to this site, I swallowed all the information and techniques and lectures.

It made me worst off, I did not see the big picture. All i was worried about was getting into some panties. The techniques and strategies never worked out back then. I kept telling myself the number theory where the more girls I approached, the more numbers I would get. Very depressing when you get rejected by ALL the girls you approach. I kept telling myself it'd get better with every passing day. It never did until I got the big picture.

As you begin the road to as a DJ, FORGET the past that you have. Never think about it because it no longer exist. F*** the people that was in your past. You first came here because you were depressed and desperate. Accept the fact that you came here becasue of something that happened in the past, mainly a girl. Don't give me any bs about looking back at the past, because the more you do, the more you will f*** yourself over. FACE IT the past never did sh!t for you since you're here.

Now that you destroyed the past, you now rebuild yourself in the present. Rebuild your social connections, meet new people and burn the bridges that you once had and build new ones. A year ago in high school, I knew everyone's name, but only about 4 percent of the whole school knew my name. Now, everyone on campus knows me. Hell, I have had hot girls say "hey LOKE" and I'd feel like an ******* when I reply because I forgot their name.

End of part one...I'll do part two when I come back from grinding on hot b1tches
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ImpatientFire

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Good stuff, it's only when you embrace your future and the present that you'll be able to break the chains of the past that hold
 

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It's about self-image. You have to reject negative ideas you had about yourself and embrace what you want to be.
 
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