Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's actually not a bad idea. Have a quick 10 question quiz on the basics.Originally posted by Miles Davis
Yes prior to registering for a user name for these forums, a 50 question timed exam shall be administered, consisting of questions drawn from the DJ Bible.
A certain percentage score will be the cutoff, and only those who score above this mark will be allowed to engage in discussions. Those who fail will just have to study harder next time.
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Can you hold people for contempt on this board? Repetative questions should be reason enough...Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
**OBJECTION!**
Asked and answered!
*Sustained*
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
and what was the verdict? yes or no?Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
**OBJECTION!**
Asked and answered!
*Sustained*
The jury decided "no", a test was NOT a good idea.Originally posted by Miles Davis
and what was the verdict? yes or no?