"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bible Link Needs Fixing

CapiCrimini

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I dunno... But when I first came here, and I've heard other newbs say this....

"Where is the bible"

Maybe you whould change the color...

I remember first off I didn't see it... sencond I didn't realize it was a link because of its color...

Maybe the mods could make it a little more noticable or something so people realize thats the link to the bible....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
I dunno... But when I first came here, and I've heard other newbs say this....

"Where is the bible"

Maybe you whould change the color...

I remember first off I didn't see it... sencond I didn't realize it was a link because of its color...

Maybe the mods could make it a little more noticable or something so people realize thats the link to the bible....
That is why it's at the top saying "New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ Bible." Besides, the way people are posting now-a-days, it's not like it'll do any good to make it more noticeable.
 

CapiCrimini

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Besides, the way people are posting now-a-days, it's not like it'll do any good to make it more noticeable.
i guess your right:( ... but I do wish there was a way to make it more like a link... I guess if people really want help they'll find it on there own...
 
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