"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bible Link Needs Fixing

CapiCrimini

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I dunno... But when I first came here, and I've heard other newbs say this....

"Where is the bible"

Maybe you whould change the color...

I remember first off I didn't see it... sencond I didn't realize it was a link because of its color...

Maybe the mods could make it a little more noticable or something so people realize thats the link to the bible....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
I dunno... But when I first came here, and I've heard other newbs say this....

"Where is the bible"

Maybe you whould change the color...

I remember first off I didn't see it... sencond I didn't realize it was a link because of its color...

Maybe the mods could make it a little more noticable or something so people realize thats the link to the bible....
That is why it's at the top saying "New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ Bible." Besides, the way people are posting now-a-days, it's not like it'll do any good to make it more noticeable.
 

CapiCrimini

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Besides, the way people are posting now-a-days, it's not like it'll do any good to make it more noticeable.
i guess your right:( ... but I do wish there was a way to make it more like a link... I guess if people really want help they'll find it on there own...
 
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