"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bible Link Needs Fixing

CapiCrimini

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I dunno... But when I first came here, and I've heard other newbs say this....

"Where is the bible"

Maybe you whould change the color...

I remember first off I didn't see it... sencond I didn't realize it was a link because of its color...

Maybe the mods could make it a little more noticable or something so people realize thats the link to the bible....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
I dunno... But when I first came here, and I've heard other newbs say this....

"Where is the bible"

Maybe you whould change the color...

I remember first off I didn't see it... sencond I didn't realize it was a link because of its color...

Maybe the mods could make it a little more noticable or something so people realize thats the link to the bible....
That is why it's at the top saying "New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ Bible." Besides, the way people are posting now-a-days, it's not like it'll do any good to make it more noticeable.
 

CapiCrimini

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Besides, the way people are posting now-a-days, it's not like it'll do any good to make it more noticeable.
i guess your right:( ... but I do wish there was a way to make it more like a link... I guess if people really want help they'll find it on there own...
 
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