"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The betrayal many men don't understand

BadBoy89

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Because while she may not know what she wants, she DEFINITELY knows what she doesn't want. And too many guys don't get this.
Don't disagree, but that's a little too easy.

There is an opposite to everything. If a woman doesn't like something, she has to like something. Otherwise the not liking something doesn't hold water.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't disagree, but that's a little too easy.

There is an opposite to everything. If a woman doesn't like something, she has to like something. Otherwise the not liking something doesn't hold water.
Of course, but she may not know what that is if she hasn't yet experienced it.
 

tesla8520

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women that can equally defy hedonic adaptation.
Do you really think women like that exist?
I haven't found any women who take responsibility for their actions, let alone women who work on it.
 

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Do you really think women like that exist?
I haven't found any women who take responsibility for their actions, let alone women who work on it.
Yes, these are high quality women.

And high quality women only hang out with high quality people.

Maybe you need to expand your social circle or something.

Just because you can't find them doesn't mean they don't exist.
 

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Just because you can't find them doesn't mean they don't exist.
Mate, I tell myself this all the time.
The same goes for male friends.

So, if you've seen them and found them, you've definitely figured this out from a few things.
How much time did you spend with them, or what signs did you see in them that they were truly high-quality?

You say they hang out with high-quality people. These days, it's hard to find high-quality people thanks to the fact that social media has infected people with narcissism. Finding these groups isn't easy, mate.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Finding these groups isn't easy, mate.
I'm genuinely not trying to be a d*ck.

But here's the harsh truth.

If you are a high quality male, you'll naturally find high quality females.

If you are a low quality male, all you'll find is low quality females.

You just live your life, stop worrying about deliberately chasing ladies, and chase ambition instead.

Everything, not just men and women, is mostly noise with a few golden nuggets scattered about.

If you think there is a repeatable, step by step method, or a specific location or strategy to "find high quality women" you've already lost.
 
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