The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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The best way to make a girl regret her decision of rejecting you...is by living well.
I know it seems cliche, but I realized that this is the answer. Results may not be seen for days, even weeks. But eventually - by living to your fullest, living well - the chick that said no will say "whoa" upon seeing the new and improved you. I'll try to show this using two very recent examples:
1.) HB9 was in my high school graduating class and also attends the same University I do. During high school, I was well-known in a positive light, but HB9 and her girl friends (made up the popular girls) looked down on me and never really opened up to me, even as aquaintances/friends. In fact, I asked out HB9 a few years ago and she just ignored me. My friends tell me how nice a person she is and how well she conducts herself. Well, she decided I deserved to be the recipient of her immature and stuck up treatment. Fast forward from September to May. I was a three-year letter winner as a track sprinter, but really hit the gym once college started. I put on 15lbs of muscle, via bulking up my arms and chst/shoulders, developed a six-pack, and haven't lost a step running-wise. In addition, I became MUCH more confident in myself and my abilities, and this shows in the way I conduct myself. Yesterday, I happen to see, well, a HB9 walking towards me while eating a bagel and I can't tell who it is. As we get closer, we recognize one each other, and then all of a sudden: it hits her and she freezes. She is absolutely stunned. Crumbs from her bagel fall out of her mouth. Being a good guy, I say hi, she quickly says hey and bolts towards where she was going.
2.) One of the first girls I got to know here at college was this HB8. She seemed nice, and since all college Freshmen immediately hit Facebook, we first communicated a bit there. A few days after arriving, we meet as the Freshmen in my school are brought to a Major League Baseball game. Soem guy (who ended up being her friend) decides to c*ckblock me, and I'm not into letting this happen. Things were looking bleak, but this guy decided to get a snack. Reluctantly using the d!ck move (I hate doing this), I gave him a "friendly tip" of bringing up the franchise's most infamous player to the fans on the line (he said he was a big fan of the team, but didn't know this guy). It took him 3 innings to get his snack. :crackup: HB8 knew I must have done something that caused this, and then later (a couple weeks) accused me of being a stalker because she walked through my running path, and we saw each other three times during the same week on this path. :crazy: Anyway, like the first girl (HB9), I didn't really see her again until today. After hitting the gym, getting much stronger, gaining more confidence, etc., I am walking in the lobby of my dorm after a full workout. Who do I see? HB8. Previously, she would have tried to pretend she didn't see me, but today said hi with a bit of a smile. Even if the situation still seemed a little awkward, she cracked.
So, as you can see, LIVING WELL is the best way to show a girl she made the wrong decision by saying no to you. Dwelling on a rejection, nor exacting revenge is going to help. However, living to your fullest capability makes you look better than ever before in the eyes of both yourself and of others. It will be interesting when I go home in a few weeks and see people from high school again. All those girls who shot my down and also looked down on me...well, let's just say the tables will turn. :yes:
I know it seems cliche, but I realized that this is the answer. Results may not be seen for days, even weeks. But eventually - by living to your fullest, living well - the chick that said no will say "whoa" upon seeing the new and improved you. I'll try to show this using two very recent examples:
1.) HB9 was in my high school graduating class and also attends the same University I do. During high school, I was well-known in a positive light, but HB9 and her girl friends (made up the popular girls) looked down on me and never really opened up to me, even as aquaintances/friends. In fact, I asked out HB9 a few years ago and she just ignored me. My friends tell me how nice a person she is and how well she conducts herself. Well, she decided I deserved to be the recipient of her immature and stuck up treatment. Fast forward from September to May. I was a three-year letter winner as a track sprinter, but really hit the gym once college started. I put on 15lbs of muscle, via bulking up my arms and chst/shoulders, developed a six-pack, and haven't lost a step running-wise. In addition, I became MUCH more confident in myself and my abilities, and this shows in the way I conduct myself. Yesterday, I happen to see, well, a HB9 walking towards me while eating a bagel and I can't tell who it is. As we get closer, we recognize one each other, and then all of a sudden: it hits her and she freezes. She is absolutely stunned. Crumbs from her bagel fall out of her mouth. Being a good guy, I say hi, she quickly says hey and bolts towards where she was going.
2.) One of the first girls I got to know here at college was this HB8. She seemed nice, and since all college Freshmen immediately hit Facebook, we first communicated a bit there. A few days after arriving, we meet as the Freshmen in my school are brought to a Major League Baseball game. Soem guy (who ended up being her friend) decides to c*ckblock me, and I'm not into letting this happen. Things were looking bleak, but this guy decided to get a snack. Reluctantly using the d!ck move (I hate doing this), I gave him a "friendly tip" of bringing up the franchise's most infamous player to the fans on the line (he said he was a big fan of the team, but didn't know this guy). It took him 3 innings to get his snack. :crackup: HB8 knew I must have done something that caused this, and then later (a couple weeks) accused me of being a stalker because she walked through my running path, and we saw each other three times during the same week on this path. :crazy: Anyway, like the first girl (HB9), I didn't really see her again until today. After hitting the gym, getting much stronger, gaining more confidence, etc., I am walking in the lobby of my dorm after a full workout. Who do I see? HB8. Previously, she would have tried to pretend she didn't see me, but today said hi with a bit of a smile. Even if the situation still seemed a little awkward, she cracked.
So, as you can see, LIVING WELL is the best way to show a girl she made the wrong decision by saying no to you. Dwelling on a rejection, nor exacting revenge is going to help. However, living to your fullest capability makes you look better than ever before in the eyes of both yourself and of others. It will be interesting when I go home in a few weeks and see people from high school again. All those girls who shot my down and also looked down on me...well, let's just say the tables will turn. :yes: