The best way to make a girl regret her decision of rejecting you...

[The Comeback Kid]

The best way to make a girl regret her decision of rejecting you...is by living well.

I know it seems cliche, but I realized that this is the answer. Results may not be seen for days, even weeks. But eventually - by living to your fullest, living well - the chick that said no will say "whoa" upon seeing the new and improved you. I'll try to show this using two very recent examples:

1.) HB9 was in my high school graduating class and also attends the same University I do. During high school, I was well-known in a positive light, but HB9 and her girl friends (made up the popular girls) looked down on me and never really opened up to me, even as aquaintances/friends. In fact, I asked out HB9 a few years ago and she just ignored me. My friends tell me how nice a person she is and how well she conducts herself. Well, she decided I deserved to be the recipient of her immature and stuck up treatment. Fast forward from September to May. I was a three-year letter winner as a track sprinter, but really hit the gym once college started. I put on 15lbs of muscle, via bulking up my arms and chst/shoulders, developed a six-pack, and haven't lost a step running-wise. In addition, I became MUCH more confident in myself and my abilities, and this shows in the way I conduct myself. Yesterday, I happen to see, well, a HB9 walking towards me while eating a bagel and I can't tell who it is. As we get closer, we recognize one each other, and then all of a sudden: it hits her and she freezes. She is absolutely stunned. Crumbs from her bagel fall out of her mouth. Being a good guy, I say hi, she quickly says hey and bolts towards where she was going.

2.) One of the first girls I got to know here at college was this HB8. She seemed nice, and since all college Freshmen immediately hit Facebook, we first communicated a bit there. A few days after arriving, we meet as the Freshmen in my school are brought to a Major League Baseball game. Soem guy (who ended up being her friend) decides to c*ckblock me, and I'm not into letting this happen. Things were looking bleak, but this guy decided to get a snack. Reluctantly using the d!ck move (I hate doing this), I gave him a "friendly tip" of bringing up the franchise's most infamous player to the fans on the line (he said he was a big fan of the team, but didn't know this guy). It took him 3 innings to get his snack. :crackup: HB8 knew I must have done something that caused this, and then later (a couple weeks) accused me of being a stalker because she walked through my running path, and we saw each other three times during the same week on this path. :crazy: Anyway, like the first girl (HB9), I didn't really see her again until today. After hitting the gym, getting much stronger, gaining more confidence, etc., I am walking in the lobby of my dorm after a full workout. Who do I see? HB8. Previously, she would have tried to pretend she didn't see me, but today said hi with a bit of a smile. Even if the situation still seemed a little awkward, she cracked.

So, as you can see, LIVING WELL is the best way to show a girl she made the wrong decision by saying no to you. Dwelling on a rejection, nor exacting revenge is going to help. However, living to your fullest capability makes you look better than ever before in the eyes of both yourself and of others. It will be interesting when I go home in a few weeks and see people from high school again. All those girls who shot my down and also looked down on me...well, let's just say the tables will turn. :yes:

 

[GamePlan]

I hope I didnt miss out on any crucial aspect, as I dont have time to read your whole post, now, but I think you shouldn't be trying to 'make a girl regret her decision of rejecting you'.

If you're trying to proove to her, that you're the **** and she made a bad decision by rejecting you, etc. you're probably not exactly free from her.

I guess everybody feels that need once they broke up or got rejected by somebody they wanted to get with...but in reality trying to show her it's her loss, etc. only shows how much you care.

I do agree with the living well aspect, though. But not to make her regret her decision, but just..well to live well ;-)

 

[lYlasTer]

It sounds like a serious case of one-itis if you're bent on making a girl that rejected you, regret it. If you're going to be a Don Juan and improve your life, you should do it for yourself. Doing to spite someone in your past is just very insecure.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

I may have made this part a little unclear in my post, but I was not thinking of either of them during this entire time. These are simply the two girls that saw me several months down the road.

My point was I forgot about them after they did their rejection song and dance, lived to the best (benefitting myself), and then when I did happen to run into them months later...fun fun fun.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

If you're living so well, then why are you writing essay's about women in your past? There's no need to look in the rear view mirror.

 

[danielzxc]

If you're living so well, then why are you writing essay's about women in your past? There's no need to look in the rear view mirror.

Cos it feels good to get CONFIRMATION of your improvement! Duh.

Here's this girls wouldn't give this kid a second look, but he carried on his life and bettered himself, and lo and behold, the same chicks not giving him time of day are now visibly interested (or re-interested). Naturally that's gonna be a good feeling.

He didn't say he was driven by a burning rage to make these girls regret it. He's just saying that he's made improvements in his life, and on seeing those improvements, girls that previously ignored now seemed interested.

 

[Remulak]

Without pain and rejection you wouldn't grow and improve. Living well is a product of adapting.:yes:

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Win the lottery and when she comes to you forget you know her name.

The only way to get even is to improve your game and get popular and strive to build yourself up, that's the best revenge, since the bigger your stock value, the bigger her loss. So, be a good DJ or PUA.

 

[bigjohnson]

Waste of energy. The fact you even notice is sort of sad in that you're still scarred from it or something. I guess maybe it just comes with time but anymore I just don't care what they do or think. In some abstract "I wish everyone success" way you could even say I wish them well in that I don't segregate them from the rest of the people I don't care about.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Nothing is sad unless guns are involved.

 

[bigjohnson]

Clubbing baby seals?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Clubbing baby seals?

Baby seals dont go to clubs.

 

[bigjohnson]

The clubs come to them, but some people find that sad.

 

[danielzxc]

Waste of energy. The fact you even notice is sort of sad in that you're still scarred from it or something. I guess maybe it just comes with time but anymore I just don't care what they do or think. In some abstract "I wish everyone success" way you could even say I wish them well in that I don't segregate them from the rest of the people I don't care about.

Depends what you mean by "sad". If it just means "unfortunate", fair enough. It's too harsh if you mean it in some sort of "you're a loser" sense.

Most people in life if they have made big changes from who they were will go through at least a period of thinking "if only they could see me now". If you've never changed that much, or if there was never anything too "bad" in your past, I guess you might not understand.

I have a few people I wouldn't mind "impressing", myself. But I never lose sleep over it, or even think about it at all, except from time to time if something brings the thought up in my mind (like this thread).

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

I totally understand where the TC is coming from.
Sometimes there's a girl of whom u believe u didn't do anything wrong with in an interaction, she's attracted but loses it for an unexplainable reason.

The girl believes that she can find a better guy than u. But then gets a look of shock/regret rejecting you...when she sees u with an even better looking girl. Its a extremely great feeling but not worth it just to prove something to a girl thats not worthy to u, she doesn't exist after she rejects u...u are worthy of better.