"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The best tip you've read on SoSuave?

WORKEROUTER

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I think of the lessons I've learned on SoSuave daily. I attribute a lot of the success I've been having with women to the readings on here.

So here's the question...What's the best tip you've read and applied from SoSuave?

One of them that really sticks in my mind is a quicktip article explaining how one should always persist a second time with a girl even if she initially rejected him. She's probably "testing" you, subconsciously or not. You have to realize to yourself that you ARE the best guy for her, and that she's making a BIG mistake rejecting you.

I've been applying this countless times in various instances.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cruise

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^^^ money.

At the expense of being perceived of jumping on the bandwagon, I credit Pook for a great tip, which, to varying degrees, are expressed from other authors from different angles... but... with a name like Pook, how could you not give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he had this word of wisdom from the second he came out of his mother's womb?

And it is this: Embrace your sexuality. Do not hide your testosterone driven essence of NATURAL manliness. All the tips and tricks of the trade branch off from this core principle, that everything you SHOULD BE as a male in today's society, you ALREADY ARE. Now live it.

Of course, he has numerous articles that expand on this concept, which I don't care to advertise, as if I haven't done enough already. Overall, when, by a stroke of nature, I might get into a whirlwind of confusion and mental block, I can always remember this simple principle. EMBRACE YOUR SEXUALITY. **** THE NORM. LIVE OPEN IN YOUR TESTOSTERONE...

Yup.
 

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I find the eyecontact theories (especially the one about the dilating pupils, and hence being more attractive, etc etc) are really really good. Mostly because that is the absolute first step, right before "hi". Get the eyecontact thing happening, plus bodylanguage, and you can really get the foot up early :)

Syn.
 

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"I dont need her, she needs me"
 

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Not being needy, and having a life probably.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Learning to let the small things go in life. My life has become less frustrating and alot more fun.
 

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Girls are the sugar on top. What you make of the rest of your life determines the fruit. (metaphorically, I dont' know the exact words)

Basically, if your girls are rotten, you should have a damn good fruit still, because you shouldnt' be putting that rotten sugar on top.

On the flip side, no girl will make your rotten apple any more pleasing.

And if you're rotten and the girls hate you, you're nothing.
 

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Worry about loving yourself, before you love another.
 
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