Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
The Best of Motivation.
- Thread starter Plec07
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DJ Amateur
New Member
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ameya905
Don Juan
So, here's some of MY steps to help you guys get girls.
STEP 1: GET A LIFE
STEP 2: GET A JOB
STEP 3: GET OUTA Yo MOMA's Basement!
STEP 4: At least TRY to get a girl... but make sure you do the steps above FIRST.
If following these steps doesn't help you guys, I've lost all hope in you. I'm not trying to hate or anything... I'm just a person from the REAL WORLD, explaining to you how LIFE actually works outside of COMPUTER LAND.
Good bye and good day.
If any of you guys have any more questions, just reply.
NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
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From my point of view - leaning back on a chair in mediteranean climate, without a shirt on, casually sipping water, newly shaven, and expecting friends within the next hour - I can effectively say that you are mistaken about the central values of this site.happy said:Everyone on this goddamn site is a pathetic nerd with no life, no job, and no social skills. I can totally see why u guys would relate to the Big Bang Theory show.... 'cause it's about no-lifes like u. I'd like to see any of you walking into a bar and try to get a girl... I bet you can't. You probably can't even get any of the girls on Xbox live or on you're stupid WOW games you play all day. You probably live your mom's basement to boot.
So, here's some of MY steps to help you guys get girls.
STEP 1: GET A LIFE
STEP 2: GET A JOB
STEP 3: GET OUTA Yo MOMA's Basement!
STEP 4: At least TRY to get a girl... but make sure you do the steps above FIRST.
If following these steps doesn't help you guys, I've lost all hope in you. I'm not trying to hate or anything... I'm just a person from the REAL WORLD, explaining to you how LIFE actually works outside of COMPUTER LAND.
Good bye and good day.
If any of you guys have any more questions, just reply.
Yes this is a place where many may enter when they are at the bottom, but what makes this site unique is where it helps the ones with enough willpower to rise on top. It is nothing more than a community of guys wanting the best for eachother. This leads nicely into my question: How would you like it up the ass?
apocolipto
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And last, but not least: Go fvck yourself troll.
yamazaki
Guest
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.