"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Best of Motivation.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ Amateur

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first failure feels sooooo bad, i'm just hoping the next attempt will end better, if it doesn't then **** it i'm still going to try again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everyone on this goddamn site is a pathetic nerd with no life, no job, and no social skills. I can totally see why u guys would relate to the Big Bang Theory show.... 'cause it's about no-lifes like u. I'd like to see any of you walking into a bar and try to get a girl... I bet you can't. You probably can't even get any of the girls on Xbox live or on you're stupid WOW games you play all day. You probably live your mom's basement to boot.

So, here's some of MY steps to help you guys get girls.
STEP 1: GET A LIFE
STEP 2: GET A JOB
STEP 3: GET OUTA Yo MOMA's Basement!
STEP 4: At least TRY to get a girl... but make sure you do the steps above FIRST.

If following these steps doesn't help you guys, I've lost all hope in you. I'm not trying to hate or anything... I'm just a person from the REAL WORLD, explaining to you how LIFE actually works outside of COMPUTER LAND.

Good bye and good day.

If any of you guys have any more questions, just reply.
 

NorwegianDJ

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happy said:
Everyone on this goddamn site is a pathetic nerd with no life, no job, and no social skills. I can totally see why u guys would relate to the Big Bang Theory show.... 'cause it's about no-lifes like u. I'd like to see any of you walking into a bar and try to get a girl... I bet you can't. You probably can't even get any of the girls on Xbox live or on you're stupid WOW games you play all day. You probably live your mom's basement to boot.

So, here's some of MY steps to help you guys get girls.
STEP 1: GET A LIFE
STEP 2: GET A JOB
STEP 3: GET OUTA Yo MOMA's Basement!
STEP 4: At least TRY to get a girl... but make sure you do the steps above FIRST.

If following these steps doesn't help you guys, I've lost all hope in you. I'm not trying to hate or anything... I'm just a person from the REAL WORLD, explaining to you how LIFE actually works outside of COMPUTER LAND.

Good bye and good day.

If any of you guys have any more questions, just reply.
From my point of view - leaning back on a chair in mediteranean climate, without a shirt on, casually sipping water, newly shaven, and expecting friends within the next hour - I can effectively say that you are mistaken about the central values of this site.

Yes this is a place where many may enter when they are at the bottom, but what makes this site unique is where it helps the ones with enough willpower to rise on top. It is nothing more than a community of guys wanting the best for eachother. This leads nicely into my question: How would you like it up the ass?
 

apocolipto

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Lmao your a fvcking joke. Coming here and insulting us?? Why don't you tell us your experience in the game?? Ohh, you have had 7 ****s up your ass? I thought so. Now, read the journals of all the respected members of this site( Mindgamez, NorwegianDJ, Nino, BPH, JackWealthy, me etc etc.) and compare yourself. You're here to learn, not be so arrogant and think your the best!!

And last, but not least: Go fvck yourself troll.
 
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yamazaki

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Nice post buddy. It is very helpful as motivation requires for try next time. success is not just a quick thing as seen on TV. There is a great difference between a film in which the 50 years of life shown in 60 to 90 minutes and the real life. For me this is very helpful as it seems little harder when it comes to try the second time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nicjohn82

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This list is great. I have read two of them and they were good. However, for motivation, I also suggest you guys to read books like "Seven habits of highly effective people". Also join Quora, I have read many motivational quotes and stories there.
 
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