"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Best of Motivation.

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Alrite lads, Reading through all these posts asking for help I've realised something. There seem to be a lot of people who know their stuff. They've memories routines and have C+F nailed down... with people they know. All they lack is confidence. This is why I've decided to put together a bunch of the best motivational threads from the HS forum. These will get you pumped up and ready for action before you plan to get that number/date/lay. If you find a thread that has really got you pumped up then sent me a PM with the link and I'll see about adding it to the list.

Threads to get you Motivated

You'll notice I put up a lot of posts by Sammo. This is because I believe he is one of the greatest posters on sosuave and every post of his I've read has got me motivated to get up and do something. I strongly advise anybody on these forums, experienced or not to look up some of his posts and just have a read when you have the time. They are worth it.

Now for those of you who feel like sosuave is useless to you, to the point where you don't even see the point of reading any of the threads listen above, here are some stories of people from sosuave in the HS forum.

Success Stories

Now get up off your lazy arse, get our there, and most of all enjoy yourself! :box:

*NOTE* I have posted these links without notice to the original posters, simply because it wouldn't bbe worth the effort and some of them have left the site. If there is a link to one of your posts on this thread which you do not want please inform me via PM and I will remove it.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nice links but most people on this are all about instant results. No one wants to wait 6 months to sleep with a girl, they want to do it in 6 min. Most people on here think ok, I can go to sleep earlier, workout, meet new friends, get a new job, new wardrobe, be interesting, smile a lot, be friendly, learn how to cook, learn a new language, learn guitar, etc, etc, etc, but if there is no sex at the end of this hard work, what's the point?

I love the link that says "a stop masturbation success story". Stop masturbating, and you will have sex. That's like saying stop eating big macs, and you will have a million dollars.
 
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we could definitely use more of these :)
while the bible has a lot, it definitely is not updated consistently, and it is always nice to read something new, even if the purpose is the same, from a new perspective.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan11 said:
Nice links but most people on this are all about instant results. No one wants to wait 6 months to sleep with a girl, they want to do it in 6 min. Most people on here think ok, I can go to sleep earlier, workout, meet new friends, get a new job, new wardrobe, be interesting, smile a lot, be friendly, learn how to cook, learn a new language, learn guitar, etc, etc, etc, but if there is no sex at the end of this hard work, what's the point?

I love the link that says "a stop masturbation success story". Stop masturbating, and you will have sex. That's like saying stop eating big macs, and you will have a million dollars.
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You self improve for YOURSELF, not for the girls man. Ok, ABIT for the girls, but MAINLY for YOURSELF.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You should also include "Gav's Guide to Motivation" thread. It's a must read too.
 
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Hello Everyone.
My motivational technique is to visualize myself as already successful and affirming this mental picture at least five times a day especially before falling asleep and immediately after waking up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wrong Thread inst there a delete button here? :(
 
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Best way of motivation here a links it help you to people do something new and always a remember that you motivate some-one this way that person do any thing what they like and they learn many things this are the great things.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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