"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Best of Motivation.

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Alrite lads, Reading through all these posts asking for help I've realised something. There seem to be a lot of people who know their stuff. They've memories routines and have C+F nailed down... with people they know. All they lack is confidence. This is why I've decided to put together a bunch of the best motivational threads from the HS forum. These will get you pumped up and ready for action before you plan to get that number/date/lay. If you find a thread that has really got you pumped up then sent me a PM with the link and I'll see about adding it to the list.

Threads to get you Motivated

You'll notice I put up a lot of posts by Sammo. This is because I believe he is one of the greatest posters on sosuave and every post of his I've read has got me motivated to get up and do something. I strongly advise anybody on these forums, experienced or not to look up some of his posts and just have a read when you have the time. They are worth it.

Now for those of you who feel like sosuave is useless to you, to the point where you don't even see the point of reading any of the threads listen above, here are some stories of people from sosuave in the HS forum.

Success Stories

Now get up off your lazy arse, get our there, and most of all enjoy yourself! :box:

*NOTE* I have posted these links without notice to the original posters, simply because it wouldn't bbe worth the effort and some of them have left the site. If there is a link to one of your posts on this thread which you do not want please inform me via PM and I will remove it.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice links but most people on this are all about instant results. No one wants to wait 6 months to sleep with a girl, they want to do it in 6 min. Most people on here think ok, I can go to sleep earlier, workout, meet new friends, get a new job, new wardrobe, be interesting, smile a lot, be friendly, learn how to cook, learn a new language, learn guitar, etc, etc, etc, but if there is no sex at the end of this hard work, what's the point?

I love the link that says "a stop masturbation success story". Stop masturbating, and you will have sex. That's like saying stop eating big macs, and you will have a million dollars.
 
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we could definitely use more of these :)
while the bible has a lot, it definitely is not updated consistently, and it is always nice to read something new, even if the purpose is the same, from a new perspective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
DonJuan11 said:
Nice links but most people on this are all about instant results. No one wants to wait 6 months to sleep with a girl, they want to do it in 6 min. Most people on here think ok, I can go to sleep earlier, workout, meet new friends, get a new job, new wardrobe, be interesting, smile a lot, be friendly, learn how to cook, learn a new language, learn guitar, etc, etc, etc, but if there is no sex at the end of this hard work, what's the point?

I love the link that says "a stop masturbation success story". Stop masturbating, and you will have sex. That's like saying stop eating big macs, and you will have a million dollars.
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You self improve for YOURSELF, not for the girls man. Ok, ABIT for the girls, but MAINLY for YOURSELF.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You should also include "Gav's Guide to Motivation" thread. It's a must read too.
 
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Hello Everyone.
My motivational technique is to visualize myself as already successful and affirming this mental picture at least five times a day especially before falling asleep and immediately after waking up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wrong Thread inst there a delete button here? :(
 
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Best way of motivation here a links it help you to people do something new and always a remember that you motivate some-one this way that person do any thing what they like and they learn many things this are the great things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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