"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jack Hensy

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Not giving a ****. That should be your attitude towards a woman. Your life is about having high self esteem, your mission in life, and not caring about validation.

The moment I stop thinking about a girl and not giving a ****---- they start texting me.
I forgot about a date tonight with this attractive girl until she texted me to remind me of our date.
I realized at that moment--my mission in life is my business--not her.
My business is my lover. It consumes my mind 24/7. My business is dinner, whereas the girl is the dessert. I can take her or leave her. If anything she is a distraction.
Her goal is to seduce my mind in order to make her the #1 priority. (Not going to happen) Once she can do that---game over. She moves on to a stronger male. If she cancels a date....just say.... "Ok."
You should not care that she cancelled because "something else" is consuming your mind.
That "something else" is starting a business, making money, climbing the corporate ladder, writing a book, or taking a hiking trip. She doesn't matter. Your purpose in life matters. You are a man with a mission.

Don't give a **** about women.(Not saying to be a jerk.) Just pre-occupy your mind with other things going on in your life. Women will only bring short term happiness, whereas your mission in life will bring long term happiness.
There are better things in life than having sex with a beautiful woman. If you dig deep enough you will find events more exhilarating such as skydiving, cliffdiving, bungee jumping, focusing on a business that will make you wealthy, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is true, if I see a woman I found attractive I will look, but I won't be needy or thirsty. Just glance say to myself "she's cute or hot" and adjust my focus back to doing what I have too do
 

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David deangelo has a good video on inner game. My only complaint is that it's to long. That is my complaint about most dating videos. They pad the content to justify the price.
 
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