"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The best "inner game" frame

Jack Hensy

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Not giving a ****. That should be your attitude towards a woman. Your life is about having high self esteem, your mission in life, and not caring about validation.

The moment I stop thinking about a girl and not giving a ****---- they start texting me.
I forgot about a date tonight with this attractive girl until she texted me to remind me of our date.
I realized at that moment--my mission in life is my business--not her.
My business is my lover. It consumes my mind 24/7. My business is dinner, whereas the girl is the dessert. I can take her or leave her. If anything she is a distraction.
Her goal is to seduce my mind in order to make her the #1 priority. (Not going to happen) Once she can do that---game over. She moves on to a stronger male. If she cancels a date....just say.... "Ok."
You should not care that she cancelled because "something else" is consuming your mind.
That "something else" is starting a business, making money, climbing the corporate ladder, writing a book, or taking a hiking trip. She doesn't matter. Your purpose in life matters. You are a man with a mission.

Don't give a **** about women.(Not saying to be a jerk.) Just pre-occupy your mind with other things going on in your life. Women will only bring short term happiness, whereas your mission in life will bring long term happiness.
There are better things in life than having sex with a beautiful woman. If you dig deep enough you will find events more exhilarating such as skydiving, cliffdiving, bungee jumping, focusing on a business that will make you wealthy, etc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PeasantPlayer

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This is true, if I see a woman I found attractive I will look, but I won't be needy or thirsty. Just glance say to myself "she's cute or hot" and adjust my focus back to doing what I have too do
 

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David deangelo has a good video on inner game. My only complaint is that it's to long. That is my complaint about most dating videos. They pad the content to justify the price.
 
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