VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
Bump! Cheers Sammo 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The beliefs who made me who i am.. Uncovered
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Natural Vibe
Don Juan
Great post, excellent reflection on things the masters know but very few can put it in words.
Interesting story.
Interesting story.
Thanks for an inspiring post!
I'd recommend everyone to read Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. It's all about how to change your current state of mind and be happy in the present, instead of focusing and/or worrying about the past and future events which we cannot control. It's by far the most mindblowing book I've read. DeAngelo also talks about it all the time, and I believe he also said that if there is only one book you'll read then make sure it's The Power of Now.
I'd recommend everyone to read Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. It's all about how to change your current state of mind and be happy in the present, instead of focusing and/or worrying about the past and future events which we cannot control. It's by far the most mindblowing book I've read. DeAngelo also talks about it all the time, and I believe he also said that if there is only one book you'll read then make sure it's The Power of Now.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
pjtheman
Don Juan
amazing post, truely inspiring
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I'm not advertising if I say that, 3 years ago, this Thread changed my life. Pook told me what to do, and Sammo made me go out and actually do it!
I was in a huge downward spiral resulting from fear and lethargy. My life changed direction 180° when I took that one first step.
I was in a huge downward spiral resulting from fear and lethargy. My life changed direction 180° when I took that one first step.