VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
Bump! Cheers Sammo 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The beliefs who made me who i am.. Uncovered
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Natural Vibe
Don Juan
Great post, excellent reflection on things the masters know but very few can put it in words.
Interesting story.
Interesting story.
Thanks for an inspiring post!
I'd recommend everyone to read Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. It's all about how to change your current state of mind and be happy in the present, instead of focusing and/or worrying about the past and future events which we cannot control. It's by far the most mindblowing book I've read. DeAngelo also talks about it all the time, and I believe he also said that if there is only one book you'll read then make sure it's The Power of Now.
I'd recommend everyone to read Eckhart Tolle's The Power of Now. It's all about how to change your current state of mind and be happy in the present, instead of focusing and/or worrying about the past and future events which we cannot control. It's by far the most mindblowing book I've read. DeAngelo also talks about it all the time, and I believe he also said that if there is only one book you'll read then make sure it's The Power of Now.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
pjtheman
Don Juan
amazing post, truely inspiring
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I'm not advertising if I say that, 3 years ago, this Thread changed my life. Pook told me what to do, and Sammo made me go out and actually do it!
I was in a huge downward spiral resulting from fear and lethargy. My life changed direction 180° when I took that one first step.
I was in a huge downward spiral resulting from fear and lethargy. My life changed direction 180° when I took that one first step.