"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Before Part

Dukester

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I am going to write this as a 2-thread deal.
This is part one, the pre-action.

This weekend, my buddy and I are going to the mall, and I'm gonna game a whole bunch of chicks. Never done this before, so I'm like hell, I'll give it a try.

Havent technically broke up w/ my g/f yet, but i will when i get around to it.

Any way- I am going to hit on every hot chick I see, and throw my best DJ skills at them. I dont care about numbers, but I might go for a few- who knows.


Completely ready to do this, and cant wait to get back into the game again. What a great way to restart my single life again.


So, I'll post after this weekend, and let you guys know how this idea turns out. I'm going after every hottie I can, and just gonna try and strike up convo. I dont care if she's gotta b/f- hell I'm better than him n e way.
Got some great C&F to use- plus it comes natural to me, so that helps for spur of the moment stuff.

Whish me luck guys!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You have the wrong frame. You are the prize not them. You dont need luck they do. Your the ****ing man.
 

Dukester

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oh i know dude. dont tell me how to run my game. i know what i'm doing.

that "wish me luck" was just a general statement, and i couldnt think of n e thing better to say.
 

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Im not trying to make fun of you or put you down. This is the internet. Your one of the better posters on here. Your actually taking your own initiative and going out to do mass approaches. As long as you keep on doing that youll get better with every girl you approach.

lol you got the right idea though. get out there and do the damn thing.
 

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ok man. that 1st post ya made just kinda seemed like you were dissin me 4 some reason. it's all cool tho. btw- thanks for the compliment about being a good poster on this site.

but ya, cant wait till saturday- i'll keep all ya guys updated.
this will actually help some AFC guys I think to

1) it will prove to them taht all the stuff i do say on here is true.
2) it will give them a what to do/or what not to do answer to a lot of things.
(well, that is what my 2nd post will be)

again, thanx 4 the compliment bossdog
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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