"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"the beauty myth"

woods

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I read in a newspaper today "According to Naomi Wolf, author of The Beauty Myth, there's a patriarchal conspiracy to keep women dieting so they'll be too weak and hungry to compete with men" :crackup: Maybe some of you have heard of this book, but I haven't, and I refuse to look into it, so have fun with some replies to this Bvllshyt.

Here's my two cents:

#1 Do you think there is a small possibility that the author is just a "tad overweight?"

#2 She may be onto something: Maybe the reason women are so bytchy is because they're starving to death!

#3 If anyone here lives somewhere where fat chicks are competitive and hard to deal with, and skinny chicks are passive and obedient; do you need a roommate???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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woods said:
I read in a newspaper today "According to Naomi Wolf, author of The Beauty Myth, there's a patriarchal conspiracy to keep women dieting so they'll be too weak and hungry to compete with men" :crackup:
Is this a serious article? Anti-man anyway. I thought dieting was supposed to improve health and make people look better.
 

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The article I read this in, was not agreeing with this at all, and it was written by a woman. It was in an advice column, that some fat chick wrote in to. The author took our side, saying it's actually smart women that skinny-up so they can get a decent man. It's the book that has the man hate shyt.
 

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slaog said:
Is this a serious article? Anti-man anyway. I thought dieting was supposed to improve health and make people look better.

Yeah really, women like these act like if a man wants a female to be at least not more than say 10lbs over her ideal/healthy weight, then it becomes "men want starved women who are stick figures!". What she's really saying is men should accept overwieght and obese women as the model of beauty. Nuts. Most men are not attracted to women who are too skinny and biologically unhealthy and less fertile.
 
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